Virgin Blues

Being a 32 year old virgin (female) really sucks. It weighs on me all day, everyday. Hard to focus on other things like work when it feels like I constantly have this dark cloud looming overhead.


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I kinda know how you feel

Apr 15, 2021 at 1:37am

Being a perpetual virgin it's impossible for me to lose my virginity no matter how many people I sleep with.

The Bright side

Apr 15, 2021 at 2:09am

Is that you aren't shamed for it.
Guys- on the other hand- are made fun of, told to man up, stop being a pussy etc. by society in general.
And even women have poor opinions on older virgin guys.


Apr 15, 2021 at 2:10am

Please stop worrying.

There is nothing to worry about. Everything is going to be fine.

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You could go to an escort?

Apr 15, 2021 at 6:06am

Why not see a professional if it bothers you that much?
Go to an escort? Explain to them that you are nervous and you want them to go slowly. If you take time to find the right person, it could work out for you and then you can get it off your mind. No shame ins Ewing a professional-you would go to a dr if you needed a prescription...a mechanic if you needed a new muffler...


Apr 15, 2021 at 7:35am

I was not aware there were special persons like this still in the world today. wonderful.

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@the Bright Side

Apr 15, 2021 at 8:26am

You are an idiot for thinking women are never shamed for it. Can vouch, as a former female virgin, that people openly speculate about what you are doing wrong, how to improve your looks, how to dress, how to behave, what a weirdo you are, etc. for being a virgin. Some social circles are absolutely vicious.

I'm almost 42 (female)

Apr 15, 2021 at 9:56am

and still a virgin. According to the culture we live in, I'm deeply uncool. According to me, I'm okay with not marching in lockstep with the culture. If this is something that bothers you because you are comparing yourself to others, maybe it's time to rethink that. If this is something that bothers you because it's coming from your inner voice, then it's time to listen to that inner voice.

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Apr 15, 2021 at 2:43pm

North Americans are so uptight about sex. Its not a big deal. I swear the rest of the world has WAY better sex.

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@ new idiot

Apr 15, 2021 at 2:57pm

It's about time !
Rainy days are gone.

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@ @the Bright Side

Apr 15, 2021 at 4:43pm

OK, so you're talking about your social circle.
Other poster was talking about society in general, and women. Huge difference.
It's very easy to be a male virgin- unless he has the right looks, height, suave enough, says the right things at the right time, etc etc he isn't getting anything.
All a woman has to be is kind of friendly and sort of half decent looking- and she can attract attention.

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