A riddle

Trying to solve my dating problems feels like a riddle I'll never figure out. Everything I try doesn't work and it's frustrating. The solution is so illogical that I can't come up with it and the second someone tells me the answer I'll be like "Of course, why didn't I think of that?!"

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May 3, 2021 at 7:33am

It happens when you aren't looking for it.

Completely the case for me over the past decade.

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What are you expecting?

May 3, 2021 at 3:06pm

That's the downfall. In my opinion, you have to keep your standards but go into everything with zero expectations. Think of it as online meeting friends that you MIGHT have more of a connection with. Expect little (or be open to anything) and you can't be let down, but you can be happily surprised if things look up. Secret to life.

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You have to work at it

May 3, 2021 at 10:13pm

Relationships are hard work, not like in the movies. We've been sold a fantasy that makes us unhappy when everything isn't perfect. It's not 50/50 - it's 100 percent effort from both sides.

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