Only staying with my partner out of pity

I feel so bad for them. I tried to break up but they cried like a baby and I took them back. I don't know why. They won't even do anything to help themselves. They refuse to see a doctor for their pain cuz it costs to much (tooth pain) but yet they won't even do a simple thing like figure out their health plan. I know they have one. I dunno why I pity them so much...


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Jun 24, 2021 at 3:21am

Tell whoever the f has a toothache that eventually the pain goes away.

I know. I have had several severe toothaches, but in the end the root dies and the pain goes away. Please tell "them" that the secret is looking after the rest of the teeth that are still good.

As for crying like a baby that's another matter altogether lol

Sounds like you are reasonably close. Just remember this when you consider trying to find anyone else in this wack world of 2021.

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You sound like a friend of mine

Jun 24, 2021 at 6:51am

He wants his mommy. Tosser

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Jun 24, 2021 at 7:05am

So I guess everything worked out in the end?

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This is less about pity & more about manipulation.

Jun 24, 2021 at 8:03am

Those are strings, Pinocchio.

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Just go

Jun 24, 2021 at 8:46am

Before you resent them, before it gets worse.

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Jun 24, 2021 at 10:43am

You sound insensitive.


Jun 24, 2021 at 11:02am

Your partner is manipulating you. This is not healthy behavior

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Jun 24, 2021 at 11:32am

Maybe instead of focusing on them, you should focus on yourself. There is a reason you want to be with someone who is worse than you. It may be that being with someone who is not as good as you makes you feel like you are better than them. It is called the "lower companion" syndrome.

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Who Is The Pity For? [J]

Jun 24, 2021 at 12:57pm

A thought from James Baldwin: "When the prisoner is free, the jailer faces the void of himself." Figure out which of you is which, and if you want to do anything about it.

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Jun 24, 2021 at 12:59pm

You sound like you are part of the problem by enabling. You pity them, and we pity you and them (we just don't stick around to do so).

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