Sex

I got drunk and had mind blowing sex with my friend. Then I got sober and tried it again and realized how much I liked him and got all shaky and weird and had terrible sex. I couldn’t even look at him. It was awful and I think he was confused. The problem is I don’t think I can perform the way I did when I was drunk, when I’m sober. The worst part is, I can’t orgasm when I’m drunk but when I orgasm sober I look like I have Parkinson’s. It has everything to do with being insecure and being unsure if this dude actually likes me. It’s the worst thing ever.

9 Comments

Post a Comment

Spanish fly

Jun 2, 2021 at 7:41am

But have you ever had sex on MDMA? Where can I get some.

2 5Rating: -3

If...

Jun 2, 2021 at 9:09am

... he lets you touch his genitals, he probably likes you a bit. I mean do you mean like and that he wants to marry you? To have a family? That is more about toleration rather than passion. The best way to secure that toleration is that you touch his genitals and you keep him satisfied.

3 10Rating: -7

I feel you, OP

Jun 2, 2021 at 10:54am

"Being insecure and being unsure if this dude actually likes me" sums up ~90% of people's dating and FWB experiences these days. I've certainly felt this way, and I think you've done a great job of identifying and articulating your feelings.

Drunk friend sex and bad friend sex happens. Don't be too hard on yourself! You guys will work it out if you're meant to stay in each other's lives. And if he's not an asshole, he won't care about any orgasmic earthquakes. In fact, he'll probably feel like a stallion.

Good luck and be good to yourself :)

9 3Rating: +6

There are three basic questions

Jun 2, 2021 at 11:40am

Everyone, sooner or later, will ask themselves. 1) Where did we come from before we were born into this Planet dimension? 2) Why are we here? and 3) Where do we go next? IMO its better to ask ourselves these questions sooner rather than later and, given the undercurrents and challenging confusion all of us go through in this dimension; its usually best to seek help of those who have learnt a few things. This is where we have to turn our radar on though as, a big % of hired-gun counsellors and religoid know-it-alls are about $ and control. The real-deal indigenous way is to never advertise nor put a price tag on medicine. OCM Sto:lo Coast Salish salutations.

5 3Rating: +2

"being unsure if this dude actually likes me"

Jun 2, 2021 at 11:54am

*after* sex? Yikes

13 3Rating: +10

Dude...

Jun 2, 2021 at 2:22pm

relax and enjoy your ride.

10 3Rating: +7

Hey!

Jun 3, 2021 at 1:22am

At least you’re getting some! I think the best thing you can do is just enjoy it. Don’t read into it too much or feel self conscious about how you look or sound when you and your partner are doing it. Just enjoy yourself.

7 1Rating: +6

I remember

Jun 3, 2021 at 2:48am

My first beer, too.

6 0Rating: +6

Ann111

Jun 3, 2021 at 10:51pm

Most men totally don’t care as long as they are getting it. Don’t worry about it

4 3Rating: +1

Join the Discussion

What's your name?