When I Was Youngerposted June 23rd, 2021 at 5:40 AM Sex stopped being fun because my partner would get angry with me if I finished too soon. Show 16 Comments 16 Comments Post a Comment UhhhhJun 23, 2021 at 4:49pmFinished what too soon? The cuddling? The smoking? The double vibrator session?Are you actually dumb enough to think that sex is finished when you got the one thing you wanted? UghJun 23, 2021 at 4:51pmHow dare they insinuate that sex should be fun for everyone involved! The audacity. A womanJun 23, 2021 at 4:57pmThat sucks, OP. I wish you had had a more understanding partner. Consensual sex should be fun and forgiving, but sometimes it takes awhile for us to find our groove both in the sack and in EQ. Sorry but…Jun 23, 2021 at 5:21pmI do feel for you. But I feel for your partner too. If your partner is a female and you’re a male, it can be very frustrating for her. I was married to a guy who was literally a minute man. I would just be getting really warmed up, and for him it was all over. He was also not capable of going more than once in a day. As I happen to have a very high libido, we were not a good match. But there’s good news for you. There’s a lot of information for males that have this issue. There are things you can do to help. I sure hope that you reach out for that help and do what you can, because sexual compatibility is very important in a relationship. PS - for those people who will insist that foreplay is going to fix the problem, I beg to differ. It might help for some, and it helps to get the woman “primed”, but it’s not really a substitute for the penetrative part of intercourse. It’s exactly as it sounds: foreplay. OpJun 23, 2021 at 6:50pmFor the record, this person took way longer than anyone else I've ever been with due to ... Reasons. They also physically and mentally abused me@uh - I was politely saying cum Finnish? Sex?Jun 23, 2021 at 11:04pmOh I get it: you're Scandinavian. Phew! OK. Ha! I thought for a minute there you were talking about stopping copulating. Pshaw @ sorry butJun 24, 2021 at 8:12amOp never said if they were male or femaleAs a woman, I don't like being used as a meat puppet by a desensitized guy. Superheroes go down on women.Jun 24, 2021 at 2:37pmEnd of story. @superheroesJun 24, 2021 at 7:43pmBut you’re assuming that all women like oral sex! Personally I don’t like it. Perhaps it’s because I’ve never found any guy who could actually do it well.m, so I end up just getting annoyed rather than turned on. (No, I’m not interested in trying out women!). I’m a hetero female and I’m fine with that. But what I do want in a lover is a guy who can do penetrative sex for at least a few minutes. This means that they’re likely going to need to have at least reasonably strong upper body strength so that they can support themselves, because doing it laying side by side is okay once in a while but not every time. I’m sorry guys, but this is honesty. Women do want guys who can keep it up for longer than a couple of minutes, and we usually do want a modicum of physical ability to do the deed. Astonishing hypocrisy and orwellian double-speakJun 24, 2021 at 10:49pmSo wait... you guys cause the condition for the male person by a lifetime of harm, alienation, lovelessness and even more extreme nearly omnidirectional harm on top of that, and then are doublespeak attributing cause onto him, even though the actual causes are ... you and the directly involved collective's actions?And he does his best to not do, engage or experience that because it's utterly traumatizing... and then you craft and post stuff like this here -- virtually the opposite of the truth?*facepalm + tears of blood* LOAD MORE Join the Discussion Your name Comment * your name What's your name?