Lazy Loversposted July 15th, 2021 at 6:30 PM After staying home for this long, it's doubtful that I will accept "Netflix n' chill" as a date again. Show 9 Comments 9 Comments Post a Comment alternativelyJul 16, 2021 at 6:21ami would love to go to the rio or cinematheque and make a night out of it. netflix and chill once in a while is fine but if it's preferred then that is certainly a red flag for fun. I always thought...Jul 16, 2021 at 8:50am... that this was an idiom, like, some people aren't comfortable planning to have sex, they like it to be more like in a movie or something. I've had girls ask me to go to their dorm room "for a drink" back in the day, and they did not really just want to have a drink, if you know what I mean.Do people literally think that sitting and watching TV is a date? My God!What sort of date do you want, be specific! Low standardsJul 16, 2021 at 12:36pm"Netflix n' chill" is not dating. Please don't accept low standard "dates" again. MinJul 16, 2021 at 2:12pm"Netflix and chill" should never, ever been considered a date. Oh no...Jul 16, 2021 at 3:07pmVancouver is dull, and it requires an incredible amount of imagination to pull off an interesting date, so eventually you will run out of tricks. Good for you!Jul 16, 2021 at 6:04pmI spent well over 10 years with a guy who became progressively duller and cheaper as we got more involved. I know that the relationship was truly toxic and that he really had a lot of narcissistic qualities, but due to the whole nature of that type of trauma bonding, I just got more and more used to the crumbs he threw me. By the time we finally broke up, we hadn’t actually gone on any type of “date” for at least 12 years. All he ever wanted to do was hang out and watch tv on my couch. I’m working on understanding what happened to me, and why I accepted such terrible treatment for so long, but one thing I know for sure is that I will never, EVER, tolerate being treated like that again. Massive red flags people! Anyone who refuses to treat you as special when you’re supposed to be “dating”, will definitely NOT treat you better if your relationship moves to a committed one. Get out of it and move on. I’m not a pigeonJul 16, 2021 at 10:12pmAgreed, so sick of these crumbs. Fine dining from this point forward. tiredeyes @I'm not a pigeonJul 18, 2021 at 7:14pmhow transparent. only a pigeon would say that! I like laying on the couchJul 20, 2021 at 2:49amand watching movies as much as anyone. Just bear in mind- my couch. my movies. How bout them apples? Join the Discussion Your name Comment * your name What's your name?