The L Wordposted August 2nd, 2021 at 5:44 AM I haven't "fallen in love" for 14 years. Anything after has just been an arrangement or compromise. Show 12 Comments 12 Comments Post a Comment The Biology of LoveAug 2, 2021 at 6:06pmLust is based in Testosterone or estrogen. Attraction, dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin. Attachment, oxytocin, and vasopressin. Our evolutionary biology makes it that these chemicals are in abundance when we are young and in our prime, so we can propagate our gene pools, settle down and have the energy to raise kids. As we get older, they start to decline, not to mention we get a little jaded by life, so it gets difficult to find love as we get older. Life on earth, what a trip. The bright side.Aug 2, 2021 at 8:14pmAt least you can say you've experienced falling in love in your lifetime. Many don't. tiredeyesAug 3, 2021 at 12:54amwhen you are tired of life, it's near impossible to feel love. life is brimming with romance if you let yourself glide along with it. slowly but surely, one can recover. For some there’s only oneAug 3, 2021 at 8:24amSometimes we only have one big love in our lives and after that the rest of our relationships are more about companionship. Things evolve as we age. Our priorities change depending on our circumstances. I’ve come to realize that we often will have relationships that only work for a specific time period based on what was happening in our life at the time we met that person. Sometimes they last even when that situation has changed, but only if both people grow and change together and are deeply committed to each other. If they aren’t, the relationship has served its purpose and it’s time to move on. That letting go part is often extremely painful, but it’s a natural part of life. SometimesAug 3, 2021 at 1:48pmThe L Word can also mean Lust. Do tellAug 3, 2021 at 3:10pmSo who did you fall in love with 14 years ago ?And what about now ? Hey Lusty PantsAug 3, 2021 at 3:15pmLiver starts with " L " too.And Loser , Lobster, Livingroom , Lunch.Not Bahahah :) @tiredeyesAug 3, 2021 at 3:20pmPeople are so good at giving useless advice."And you got tired eyes".Rude to someone out there.Glide along , sure like that will happen.So calm and patient. Lol No one uses handles here for a reasonAug 3, 2021 at 7:18pmTired eyes is my new favourite least favourite commenter. Sure ain't no RUK or geeknomad OpAug 3, 2021 at 7:51pmOooh, everyone here so wise LOAD MORE Join the Discussion Your name Comment * your name What's your name?