The L Word
posted August 2nd, 2021 at 5:44 AM
I haven't "fallen in love" for 14 years. Anything after has just been an arrangement or compromise.
posted August 2nd, 2021 at 5:44 AM
Dan offers some advice on where she might find it.
You were sitting by yourself & you ordered a few Curry Fish Balls and a few deep-fried Spring...
13 Comments
Post a CommentThe Biology of Love
Aug 2, 2021 at 6:06pm
Lust is based in Testosterone or estrogen. Attraction, dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin. Attachment, oxytocin, and vasopressin. Our evolutionary biology makes it that these chemicals are in abundance when we are young and in our prime, so we can propagate our gene pools, settle down and have the energy to raise kids. As we get older, they start to decline, not to mention we get a little jaded by life, so it gets difficult to find love as we get older. Life on earth, what a trip.
The bright side.
Aug 2, 2021 at 8:14pm
At least you can say you've experienced falling in love in your lifetime. Many don't.
tiredeyes
Aug 3, 2021 at 12:54am
when you are tired of life, it's near impossible to feel love. life is brimming with romance if you let yourself glide along with it. slowly but surely, one can recover.
For some there’s only one
Aug 3, 2021 at 8:24am
Sometimes we only have one big love in our lives and after that the rest of our relationships are more about companionship. Things evolve as we age. Our priorities change depending on our circumstances. I’ve come to realize that we often will have relationships that only work for a specific time period based on what was happening in our life at the time we met that person. Sometimes they last even when that situation has changed, but only if both people grow and change together and are deeply committed to each other. If they aren’t, the relationship has served its purpose and it’s time to move on. That letting go part is often extremely painful, but it’s a natural part of life.
Sometimes
Aug 3, 2021 at 1:48pm
The L Word can also mean Lust.
Do tell
Aug 3, 2021 at 3:10pm
So who did you fall in love with 14 years ago ?
And what about now ?
Hey Lusty Pants
Aug 3, 2021 at 3:15pm
Liver starts with " L " too.
And Loser , Lobster, Livingroom , Lunch.
Not Bahahah :)
@tiredeyes
Aug 3, 2021 at 3:20pm
People are so good at giving useless advice.
"And you got tired eyes".
Rude to someone out there.
Glide along , sure like that will happen.
So calm and patient. Lol
No one uses handles here for a reason
Aug 3, 2021 at 7:18pm
Tired eyes is my new favourite least favourite commenter. Sure ain't no RUK or geeknomad
Op
Aug 3, 2021 at 7:51pm
Oooh, everyone here so wise
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