zero confidence

I am a mess... when it comes to my career, making friends, sustaining relationships, opening pickle jars... I started going to therapy. I've had a couple sessions and I feel slightly better. I wonder how this will evolve... I opened a pickle jar the other day... It was a tough one too.


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Some inspiration

Aug 3, 2021 at 12:09am

Someone posted something similar days ago and I told them to do what I am doing and change yourself. I know, I know, believe me...I know how hard it is to make that change, but once you do you WILL become happier and a better version of you. Life will change as you change! Make that change today! And NO PLAN B! Only Plan A's! If you have a plan B as your safety net, that will only entice you more to quit Plan A. Want the change, make the change, and be the best you can be.

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Aug 3, 2021 at 12:47am

my wife has this trick she does where she taps on the side of the lid with a knife. I don't know why it works, but it does.

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Aug 3, 2021 at 2:39pm

You just need the edge of a spoon or screwdriver to lift up the edge parts of the lid away from the glass. Usually 5 or 6 spots around the lid does the trick.

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Aug 4, 2021 at 8:02am

What a pickle

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High five, OP

Aug 4, 2021 at 11:25am

Thanks for the honest confession. I think many people, myself included, can resonate with feeling disastrously unconfident in several areas of life. Those pickle jars can be the straw that breaks the camel’s back emotionally speaking lol.

Kidding aside, it’s been a tough year that has brought tons of uncomfortable shit to the surface that we now need to sort through. Good times.

A great cultural reset is upon us whether we like it or not. Therapy is an excellent first step toward adjusting to the new internal and external terrain — you’re doing all the right things to slowly work toward building confidence and I’m right there with you. Take it one day at a time.

Congrats on gaining access to the tough pickle jar! New level unlocked :)

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Aug 5, 2021 at 7:50pm

whack the top edge of the lid with the backside of a knife a couple of times, it breaks the seal.

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