She could have been a fact

20 years later I recall some high school memories and realize that I missed out on either a hand job, blow job, sex or all of the above with this one girl that was a couple years older than me. I didn't have many friends growing up and thought every girl in the school didn't want to go out with me so I kept it all platonic with everyone til I graduated. I was a fat kid. Like really fat kid. I missed all cues. I was in her bedroom in that big house alone. No one else home. And here I am Clueless me just being all friendly and shit. GOD, I'M SUCH AN IDIOT!

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PippaPi

Sep 14, 2021 at 4:21pm

The fact that you're still thinking about this 20 years later is sad and pathetic.You can't change it so let it go and move on with your life!! Have you not had any sexual experiences since then?? And perhaps this person liked you because you were friendly and not trying to get into their pants.If you can't let this go,I reccomend therapy to figure out why you are still living in the past so much.We all made stupid mistakes and missed cues in high school; it was high school!!!!!

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Someone has a lot of time

Sep 14, 2021 at 5:07pm

…. Thinking about “what-ifs” from 2 decades ago

14 6Rating: +8

Then again

Sep 14, 2021 at 7:11pm

You can always pay a hot Russian escort to get sexy and naked with you. See if she offers a nude massage and “happy ending”. ;)

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What ?

Sep 15, 2021 at 1:48am

So you’re now assuming that just because you were alone with her in her bedroom that she wanted to have sex with you? This is a typical attitude from too many men, and it’s part of the whole rape culture mindset. Do you assume that if a guy is alone with you in your room that he wants to have sex with you too? Are you just one of those guys who can’t comprehend that women can just want a friend who happens to be a guy? This really pisses me off. I’ve completely given up on the idea that any male is capable of being just friends with any female unless they aren’t even remotely interested in her sexually. It’s happened to me many times in the past when I was just being my normal friendly self and a guy pretended to be a friend when in fact they were hoping to get with me. Sometimes it seems like males are entirely basic and one dimensional and it’s so tedious!

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OP

Sep 15, 2021 at 2:08am

ALRIGHT! I GOT IT. I'M ALONE AND WILL BE FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE AND I WANTED TO REMINISCE ABOUT WHAT I COULD HAVE HAD. GOD, YOU GUYS MAKE PEOPLE FEEL LIKE SHIT MOST OF THE TIME. I SURRENDER

7 6Rating: +1

Suck it up kid it still happens when your.

Sep 15, 2021 at 3:35am

When that person matters in a very important way. Love causes you to act like a dumb teenager to im like 50 shit thst happened what lime three years ago to me.

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That's it?

Sep 15, 2021 at 9:09am

Seriously, a hand job, blow job and sex is a big miss in your life?

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I get it

Sep 15, 2021 at 1:58pm

I asked this girl out one time and she brought her twin sister and I thought they were both cute. I was a little weirded out and assumed that the sister had been brought as a chaperone. So when they suggested I get into the back seat with them I was like why, your sister will be watching, that’s so dumb.

You know sometimes I really had to have things spelled out for me.

Anyway, nothing happened and I remembered that as an off putting and bizarre interlude until about 20 years later when I went “Ohhhhhhhhhh!!!!!”

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Uh, wow.

Sep 15, 2021 at 5:18pm

I'm going to guess you're extremely hard on yourself, about everything. Other people can make mistakes but not you. Look we all make mistakes, we mishear things, misinterpret. Life can get weird and awkward and regretful. I think it's time to set this down, this stewing in the past, and move forward. How are you going to be going forward? A woman makes a move. What are you going to do? Are you going to be ready if she's sending you signals? What if the woman is really shy, and the signals are very subtle? Will you be ready for that? You've gotta be like a shortstop out there, ready for anything. Ready for small hints, cues, signals. Leave the fat, insecure kid in the past. Let him rest. Time to be in the present. Good luck.

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Anonymous

Sep 15, 2021 at 10:28pm

Way to go (sarcasm)

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