What's wrong with me?

Everywhere I look I see ugliness, including myself. Not in nature or animals, just people. How they look, how they act etc. The human race seems pretty unhealthy and messed up. I'm trying to see the positives and not be this way, but I still am. I judge others constantly and am mostly stressed and unhappy. Sometimes I give people a mean look for no reason and then I get home and regret it and feel awful about it.

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Perceptrons

Sep 23, 2021 at 5:57pm

We all have a little voice inside us like that, and we can’t really control what it says, but we can control how we react to it when it speaks up. It will grow if we feed it or atrophy as we ignore it. Brains are sneaky that way.

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Oh, it's ugly.

Sep 23, 2021 at 7:14pm

Reading the most recent UN report on climate change, I'm left feeling the species is fatally flawed. Most people don't care much if they're honest, and are only are concerned about such matters around election season. They're mostly concerned with getting theirs, future generations be damned. Even my mother gave me a “I'll be dead” today, and I found out my dad voted conservative. They have six grandchildren.

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You...

Sep 23, 2021 at 8:07pm

slowly morphing into a Karen ?

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State of mind

Sep 23, 2021 at 8:23pm

If you look for ugliness you will find it. If you think negatively, you will feel that way. Try having curiosity about people instead of judging them. Being nasty will only bring loneliness to you.

Treat yourself kindly. Have patience and treat others with kindness. Look for good things in the world. Happiness doesn't exist on its own. You have to put in effort and keep it up. Good luck

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Its ok, we’re all stressed

Sep 23, 2021 at 8:41pm

Collectively we’ve lost a lot. It’s not a particularly happy time so if you’re feeling stressed and unhappy, it’s normal. Just today I was in a relaxing beach area, and there was a woman screaming in her car. I thought she was having a huge argument with someone, but upon checking, she was either on the phone, or alone. People are wound really tight right now. May I suggest doing something you can immerse yourself in, for fun, and to stop negative thoughts? I go mountain biking because my brain can’t think of anything negative while I’m flying down the trails. All my focus is staying upright. I feel a million bucks from keeping the negativity away for a few hours. Surely there is something like that that you could get into.

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It’s you

Sep 23, 2021 at 10:45pm

I’m going to guess here because obviously I can’t possibly know what’s causing this type of issue for you based on a couple of lines. But I suspect that you’ve got some very deep-seated self-esteem problems that you’re projecting onto others. So that what you find ugly in others might be what you find ugly in yourself. But I’m not a professional and I don’t know you at all, so I’m quite possibly completely wrong!

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@it's you

Sep 24, 2021 at 3:43am

Ha ha deep-seated. I knew someone who kept saying deep-seeded. So smart yet so not. I pushed them away on purpose because they were suffering from their cowardice which kept them on the fence like a perpetual motion machine. Had to save them from their selves so they could forget easier. Hate makes it easy to let go. I think it worked, they're in safe familiarity now. They get to have lots of things and money in exchange.
People let their fears rule their lives, make things worse the more they try to control.

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Anonymous

Sep 24, 2021 at 9:16am

Spend some time in nature, then!

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@@ it's you

Sep 24, 2021 at 1:17pm

You sound awful.

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@Perceptrons

Sep 24, 2021 at 4:47pm

Well actually, the little voice can be changed.
NLP, self hypnosis, whatever

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