Just for onceposted October 18th, 2021 at 5:15 AM Can I meet someone whose view of their ex(s) is not "cheating, abusive, crazy or deadbeats" Show 28 Comments 28 Comments Post a Comment AnonymousOct 18, 2021 at 4:01pmMy ex is just broken NotOct 18, 2021 at 4:06pmin this city. You’d be surprisedOct 18, 2021 at 4:34pmOf how many people have been wronged like that tho so shut up Seemingly NotOct 18, 2021 at 4:39pmNot these days. Everyone has turned into a total psycho. I didn’t have any psycho exes until the last one I got away from where I didn’t even know the shit I went through was possible. I was naive and now I’m not. Watch yourself out there. @OPOct 18, 2021 at 9:27pmIt's a way to avoid any regrets, to justify her dumping him, and a method to avoid having to take any responsibility for poor choices.So they lie to themselves- and everyone around- to make it easier on themselves. Common denominatorOct 18, 2021 at 10:22pmIt’s important how people speak of their past loves. Ideally, they’re able to explain where things went wrong, take responsibility for their part, and speak neutrally but respectfully. This is… rare. UnlikelyOct 18, 2021 at 10:27pmSince they became an ex for a reason, and if they weren't any of these things they'd still likely be together. AnonymousOct 18, 2021 at 11:15pmEveryone is a victim in Vancouver. I'll be difficult to find someone that will admit they were at fault. Eww, dating in Van.Oct 18, 2021 at 11:56pmI find there isn't a lot of personal accountability with many people in Vancouver. Someone is almost always to blame. There's emotional immaturity with the people. A broad stroke, I know, but this region really does breed large adolescent like children, just playing around in life. It feels like a grade school at times. AnonymousOct 19, 2021 at 4:25amYes quite the shame so many men like to be shit heads.Guess you will just have to deal with it like women do but they seem to always get the shitty end of the stick.Boo hoo for you can't meet an untainted person, thats life buddy.Maybe you could date a 16 year old they are not so tainted yet !That should make you happy get you a young piece of ass ! LOAD MORE Join the Discussion Your name Comment * your name What's your name?