Just for once

Can I meet someone whose view of their ex(s) is not "cheating, abusive, crazy or deadbeats"

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Anonymous

Oct 18, 2021 at 4:01pm

My ex is just broken

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Not

Oct 18, 2021 at 4:06pm

in this city.

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You’d be surprised

Oct 18, 2021 at 4:34pm

Of how many people have been wronged like that tho so shut up

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Seemingly Not

Oct 18, 2021 at 4:39pm

Not these days. Everyone has turned into a total psycho. I didn’t have any psycho exes until the last one I got away from where I didn’t even know the shit I went through was possible. I was naive and now I’m not. Watch yourself out there.

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@OP

Oct 18, 2021 at 9:27pm

It's a way to avoid any regrets, to justify her dumping him, and a method to avoid having to take any responsibility for poor choices.
So they lie to themselves- and everyone around- to make it easier on themselves.

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Common denominator

Oct 18, 2021 at 10:22pm

It’s important how people speak of their past loves. Ideally, they’re able to explain where things went wrong, take responsibility for their part, and speak neutrally but respectfully. This is… rare.

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Unlikely

Oct 18, 2021 at 10:27pm

Since they became an ex for a reason, and if they weren't any of these things they'd still likely be together.

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Anonymous

Oct 18, 2021 at 11:15pm

Everyone is a victim in Vancouver. I'll be difficult to find someone that will admit they were at fault.

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Eww, dating in Van.

Oct 18, 2021 at 11:56pm

I find there isn't a lot of personal accountability with many people in Vancouver. Someone is almost always to blame. There's emotional immaturity with the people. A broad stroke, I know, but this region really does breed large adolescent like children, just playing around in life. It feels like a grade school at times.

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Anonymous

Oct 19, 2021 at 4:25am

Yes quite the shame so many men like to be shit heads.
Guess you will just have to deal with it like women do but they seem to always get the shitty end of the stick.
Boo hoo for you can't meet an untainted person, thats life buddy.
Maybe you could date a 16 year old they are not so tainted yet !
That should make you happy get you a young piece of ass !

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