What do I do?

I'm in a relationship that I don't want to be in but everytime I try to leave he threatens to take away our two dogs. We got them together and they are biologically related and bonded so we don't want to seperate the boys. Im only staying in the relationship for the dogs at this point. I love them beyond words and can't handle loosing them. He keeps saying pretty much daily that if I leave him I'll never see the boys again so we should stay together. He's gone to far to say that if I leave he will find me and take the dogs back. He knows where to find me if I leave...

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Nov 23, 2021 at 1:43pm

abuse and the dogs are not more important than your well-being get out of there !!

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Can REALLY relate

Nov 23, 2021 at 2:43pm

As I was in a 5 year relationship that I spent 4 years trying to get out of, but he would talk and talk whenever I tried to break free, saying he would change (but pedos don't change). But in your case I think you should probably speak to a lawyer.
Some guys just don't seem aware that you're not going to start loving them again once you've made up your mind that you want to leave.

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Leave

Nov 23, 2021 at 3:18pm

And don't be predictable,dumb ass.

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For REAL?

Nov 23, 2021 at 4:09pm

You're staying with an A-hole because of this.
This is YOUR life!
I understand loosing a pet would be heartbreaking but this is your Happiness and mental health we're talking about. Give your head a good shake

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Ditch the Dogs.

Nov 23, 2021 at 5:13pm

Yo! This guy sucks. Don’t put so much pressure on a dog either! This is probably why the Stay together for the kids things is so low rated btw lol. Your love’s gotta go somewhere, but no one wants you miserable. Peace.

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I guess it depends

Nov 23, 2021 at 5:22pm

on WHY you want to leave him. There is not enough info to decide, but the dogs may be better off with him.

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CA Gibson

Nov 23, 2021 at 5:30pm

Do you love your dogs more than being manipulated and steamrolled by a toxic POS? Talk to a lawyer, an abuse hotline, ANY one. JFC.

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Wtf is with all the down votes?

Nov 23, 2021 at 6:00pm

This woman is in an abusive relationship. The threats he’s making are not normal. OP I feel for you. I have no advise or words of wisdom for you. This situation breaks my heart.

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Why are you asking us?

Nov 23, 2021 at 6:08pm

You've already decided that the dogs are enough to keep yourself a hostage to this guy. If you don't believe it's enough then follow Jedi Master Yoda's advice; "Let go of everything you fear to lose", and then you leave.

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Go to a Women’s Shelter

Nov 23, 2021 at 6:30pm

You’re in an abusive relationship and need help getting out.

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