Begin again

I can't do the bare minimum work to get better so I spend a lot of time criticizing and blaming others. It's a constant cycle of doom. I want everyone to cater to me and my ego, the cost is of no significance. It's easier than having the courage to look at myself and my issues, that I'm a lonely man that thought I would have been settled down by now. Sadly I only managed to push everybody away by own idiocy and pettiness. Focusing and blaming others is easier but I want to change. I want to stop fighting my childhood battles through other people. I've accepted nobody would ever date me with my disturbing issues, now I need to work on not projecting my miserable existence on others and letting them live. Where to begin?

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Channel Changing

Jan 11, 2022 at 5:16pm

Hmm it's almost like you're the future of the poster above. Fascinating.

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Nope

Jan 11, 2022 at 5:46pm

Not buying it. I suspect that this post wasn’t written by the person it’s about.

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What can I do for you?

Jan 11, 2022 at 5:56pm

Do you want me to take it back? Say it's not true? It's finished. I said what I had to say, for me. Yes, it was selfish, but it's finished now. I don't have any expectations from any of you, I've let that go.

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It's never too late

Jan 11, 2022 at 6:44pm

to be good to yourself and reflect. When you're selfish, you're all clenched up. Letting go of your anger is a release. Looking into yourself to seek change is hope. Painful, but not depressing when you do the work, uplifting, even.

It feels good to give to others, listen to their thoughts, and spread cheer. You could be happy if you wanted to.

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who saw who

Jan 11, 2022 at 8:26pm

Where to begin? I have an idea. First step is:
Write what you just confessed, word by word, exactly the same, 10x a day , for 3 months then I tell you what the second step is.

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Anonymous

Jan 11, 2022 at 8:36pm

What you're ignoring is that you haven't done the work. I am doing it, but because you refuse to, I can't do it and be around you. I'm always here, when you're ready.

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Here’s a Start

Jan 12, 2022 at 12:02am

Stop writing things that are projecting what you wish this person that hurt you thought and move on with your life.

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It’s science

Jan 12, 2022 at 5:01am

When you hoard all the positive, don’t be surprised when the negative comes for “equality”. What goes up must come down. And that which gets pushed down will always float back up.

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Miguel C

Jan 12, 2022 at 12:55pm

THERAPY

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Anonymous

Jan 12, 2022 at 2:01pm

You need to let go of the past and move forward.
Life is very confusing and unsettling now due to the common cold and all the regulations being pushed on people without a thought for humanity.
It's always about the almighty dollar first not the health and wellbeing of the human race and
scare tactics have always controlled man since the beginning of time.
Still to this very day in fact but mankind is quite resilient.
We will bounce back !

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