I want to be single

I went out to my BFs friend's bday the other day and his single friends made me realize how bad I want to be single. Im not in love with my bf any more and Covid has really made me hate him and the way he treats me. But last time I tired to break up with him he cried then threw my shit all over the place. Im.scared of what he will do if I break up with him again. I can't stand his lacy of maturity.

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Anonymous

May 23, 2022 at 6:16am

Dump his ass it will only get worse and the crying act is all bullshit. He is trying to play on your harp strings.
How dare he throw your stuff all around.
Sounds like an immature idiot baby.
It will get meaner eventually.
Save yourself all the heartache and meet someone nice or just be happy on your own.
Women should never be afraid to be alone.
Do you have a big old cast iron fry pan in the kitchen ?
If you don't definitely invest :)

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Suzie

May 23, 2022 at 7:54am

YOU are in an abusive relationship. Contact a women's resource centre, or a crisis line asap for help and advice. You can get out of this safely and be an example of learning and growth for others that might be suffering the same kind of poor relationship. I wish you the best of luck and strength of mind.

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northislandgal

May 23, 2022 at 8:06am

You need to get help and make a plan. He cant make you stay but you need to make sure you are safe first.You can do ASK for help.I am on VI Are you? I will help.

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Oh Shit!

May 23, 2022 at 10:18am

Red flags lady. Ditch his ass already.

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Oh no…

May 23, 2022 at 10:26am

You’re describing an abusive relationship. If you’re actually afraid of breaking up with him because of what he’ll do, this should be reason enough to get out! Before you do it, plan in advance to have any of his belongings packed up ready to go, and make sure that you have someone else with you in the event that he gets violent. Please get away from this guy asap. Your feelings about him are completely valid.

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Search for the right woman's counselling or support org.

May 23, 2022 at 10:56am

They'll help guide you in steps to take in protecting yourself when you dump that p.o.s.

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Dump

May 23, 2022 at 1:17pm

That lousy sack of trash!! Get a couple of friends to come over and pack up your stuff and leave. If he gets scary call the police. Get out of there!!

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Damn

May 23, 2022 at 3:20pm

Not your fault. Get out as safely and soon as you can.

Why do ladies fall for such assholes? I warn my friends all the time about watching for signs, but they still pick the wrong guy.

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Anonymous

May 23, 2022 at 4:24pm

Break-up, get on with it. We're born free, don't spend your life in chains.

No price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself -
Friedrich Nietzsche

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Honestly

May 23, 2022 at 5:07pm

Just throw him out already. Stop giving him second chances. He’s abused multiple chances that you gave him and this situation is not getting any better. It’s getting much worse so is he really worth your time and energy? Hell no! You really need to cut him loose and move with your life. Best thing to do is either find someone who’s a much better person or stay single for a while. If it was me, I’d much rather be single and have my peace of mind than be tied down to some manipulative asshole that drives me to the brink of insanity. Get rid of that clown and take care of yourself.

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