Stuck
posted May 4th, 2022 at 7:01 PM
Gay guys try and pick me up all the time and women think I'm a player.
I'm not either.
So, ahhh, what do I do?
posted May 4th, 2022 at 7:01 PM
Dan offers some advice on where she might find it.
You sat across the bar from me. I looked up and we caught each other's eye and both smiled....
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May 5, 2022 at 2:33am
Be a bi player. You might like it.
Play the game
May 5, 2022 at 5:58am
Tell the gay guys your a player and tell the women your gay
Just carry on
May 5, 2022 at 6:35am
Doesn't matter what people think of you. What do YOU think of you and what do you want to accomplish?
My husband had this same thing happen to him, gay guys loving him and straight women loving him too. Enjoy the attention, it won't last forever.
Hmmm....
May 5, 2022 at 7:19am
Maybe find out (from friends or family) how you come across as a player? Most likely it's your style (personality/speech/clothes), but don't take my word for it! Ask someone who knows you.
Squash
May 5, 2022 at 7:49am
Stick a sign on yourself?
go get yourself
May 5, 2022 at 8:14am
a cat
Boston Bob
May 5, 2022 at 2:39pm
Contrary to what you think, gay guys are not interested in the least in picking up straight guys, including you.
They are lousy lays and gay guys can get satisfying sex elsewhere.
If women think you're a player, it not the gay guys, it's you bud.
Look into YOUR behavior why women pick up the douchey player vibes you give out.
Women are generally perceptive and they are simply picking up what you are displaying.
So the lesson is, get over yourself.
@Boston Bob
May 5, 2022 at 6:35pm
"Contrary to what you think, gay guys are not interested in the least in picking up straight guys, including you.
They are lousy lays and gay guys can get satisfying sex elsewhere."
But they're straight, how would a gay man know straight men are lousy lays? Are you just so incredibly charming and charismatic, you can seduce a straight man? Do you have an invisible natural force, and these me become putty in your hands? Please tell us more. Maybe you're Vancouver's (or Boston's) Grigori Yefimovich Rasputin. How exiting.
Why don't...
May 5, 2022 at 7:32pm
you become a trans-lesbian.
Yum
May 5, 2022 at 8:55pm
Uh huh. And a lot of us guys do like the straight boys;)
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