Wakeupposted June 30th, 2022 at 11:53 PM I am a big girl and I don't understand why its so hard to find a quality man. I am a really nice person with a lot to offer to a man. I want to get married and have children. Big girls deserve love too. Show 22 Comments 22 Comments Post a Comment Love starts at homeJul 1, 2022 at 12:30pmSo if you believe you deserve love then start with yourself and take the care to maintain your body's health better. I likeJul 1, 2022 at 12:49pmbig butts and I cannot lie. AnonymousJul 1, 2022 at 1:07pmDeserving has nothing to do with it.Most men want a smaller girl. Maybe...Jul 1, 2022 at 4:48pmfind a big man ? PlentyJul 1, 2022 at 5:46pmOf Chubby Chasers out there…..Just be patient. There AreJul 1, 2022 at 7:09pmMany great big guys out there, but big women are very rarely attracted to them.One of them is my best friend who- when we're out- will be ignored by all women including the big girls. But who will gladly flirt with me. Why you ask ?Jul 1, 2022 at 10:36pmCause most men are stupid.It's all about the quality of the man.Not many of those out there !Quantity Yes they are all over the place but Quality No.It's like catfishing you stick your hand in a dirty hole and "Bam" got yourself a catfish.But do you want a stinking catfish ?Hell No :)Stay Beautiful Girl ! Not rocket scienceJul 2, 2022 at 3:40amI’m sorry if this is offensive to some people, but let’s get real: people are attracted to attractive people. There are some people who are attracted to bigger people, but the average person prefers someone who is height / weight appropriate. We are animals. Like the rest of the animal kingdom we have to compete for mates. Like the rest of the animal kingdom, some of us don’t get chosen and therefore don’t get to mate and reproduce. It’s biology. We can fight it all we want but it’s still reality. Males and females both deal with this situation although I suspect that it’s harder for men to find a woman willing to have sex with him regardless of his appearance than it is for women. As far as finding a quality person to be in a relationship with, that’s a problem we all face, regardless of how big we are. Most...Jul 2, 2022 at 12:18pm... men want to have healthy children. One of the biggest problems for children is when they're overweight. I can't overstate the problem it is for a child to be overweight especially a male child. If the mother can't control her own weight and intake then that's going to be a serious red flag for most men who want to have a family. There's no point in having an unhealthy doughy family with a woman who can't control herself. I know it's tough to hear this but if you want to have a family you need to get yourself in shape because you need to be in shape both for yourself but also for your children. Why would a man want to reproduce with someone who's unhealthy? And forget all this fat positive propaganda that says you're healthy at anybody wait. You're not. Obesity is a metabolic disorder. @OPJul 2, 2022 at 2:12pmI'm curious as to why you feel you "deserve" a strong/healthy/tall/ great looking and economically well off -all indicators of a "quality"- man.To sum it up: if you don't care about your own health,what makes me think that you'll even care about me? LOAD MORE Join the Discussion Your name Comment * your name What's your name?