A rare confession

I asked a girl out a few weeks ago. Feared rejection, but whatever, summers almost over and in a few weeks we'd not run into each other anymore. She said "sure". Went to a matinee, went for a walk, held hands. That's it. All I ever read in confessions is the "no's", lots of yes's happen too.

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Anonymous

Aug 30, 2022 at 8:12pm

Even the You Tube dating coaches say it's a numbers game, with on average 1 in a 100 agreeing to a date after contact.
So either you got lucky, she wanted a free meal, and/or you knew her prior.

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Sure they do

Aug 30, 2022 at 10:15pm

If you're tall enough, glib enough, tick all the boxes on her must have list, this enough, that enough etc.

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Anonymous

Aug 31, 2022 at 7:41am

You're one of the courageous good ones. Keep it up op.

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@anonymous

Aug 31, 2022 at 7:54am

so... you literally did not read the confession but responded negatively anyways?

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@Sure they do

Aug 31, 2022 at 12:38pm

Everyone has a checklist. Whether you admit that or not is up to you, but we all subconsciously have one – even if we aren’t necessarily aware that we do. We all look for some specific attributes when we are checking someone out.

As a man, you can use your charm, charisma, and sense of humour to help – let's say, negotiate, within that checklist. No one wants to hang out with a boring knob. Lastly, you can be a great shag. Women enjoy sex, too. I've heard countless times that this or that guy is dumb or a jerk, but is a great shag, and there's always a little sparkle in her eye when she says it. Remember, we're all just monkeys with clothes, and things can get a little primitive. So there, you don't have to check all the boxes, but you're going to have to make an effort.

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@@Sure they do

Sep 1, 2022 at 8:01am

Mmhmm. Some women just want a great shag, sure. But, they make the mistake of equating good sex with good relationship material. That's why so many end up in long term abusive/toxic relationships with fucking assholes. Not the choice I would make to begin with.

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automaton

Sep 3, 2022 at 1:21pm

One will never regret putting an effort forth.

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Vocel

Sep 4, 2022 at 6:05am

I appreciate the opposite sex. But I choose not to engage or converse with them anymore. Why? None of your business. Voluntary celibacy!!
Some people are viciously attacked by dogs?
Do you think they’d ever want to interact with one ever again? Maybe…
Would you force that person to? And if they didn’t would you label them and demonize them. Laugh and mock them? We would wouldn’t we.

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