I self loath myself. It helps me be a little less pretentious around my friends. They seem to hate me for it, but then again, I hate me too.
Are you sure it's not just a crush?
Sep 19, 2022 at 5:03pm
I mean you hardly know each other. And plus you are always cleaning up after yourself!! It's so annoying.
@ Challenge yourself. Its euphoric
Sep 19, 2022 at 7:27pm
Thank you. I'm very challenged and need to remind myself of that regularly. When lost, doesn't it make sense to find help from those who have had the experience of going through these challenges and figured out where real help is? The caution is however, is that there are so many skillful deceivers selling counterfeit help. That's where proper discernment need activate our inner radar. The teaching of my people is that helpers must always have a separate trade or profession to feed their family, and never charge $$ or advertise their services. That alone weeds out the frauds. OCM Sto'lo Coast Salish salutations.
Re: are you sure
Sep 19, 2022 at 8:15pm
What the hell is with with this comment. The person is confessing self love…where do you get crush from? Also, what does anything have to do with cleaning? Are you okay?
@@are you sure
Sep 20, 2022 at 6:59am
Whoa! Geddy up there little sister! You are full of hostility, lady. It's you who are definitely not ok.
I look around
Sep 20, 2022 at 2:26pm
at the world and its ways ask myself what is worth trying to do, where I want to be, amongst who do I want to be? I can't come up with anything.
@Re
Sep 20, 2022 at 7:23pm
Well said. I guess some egos need the illusion of being the centre, or crush, in every story.
Not buying into this
Sep 20, 2022 at 7:44pm
This whole idea of having to love ourselves seems silly to me. I think the majority of people born before the 60’s are likely a lot more pragmatic than that. I think it’s more about respecting and valuing yourself and your own needs than it is about “loving” yourself. I’m more interested in loving other people than I am in loving myself, but I also know that I have intrinsic value too, just as everyone does. So putting my own needs first sometimes and being comfortable with who I am as a person and my right to be treated well is perfectly reasonable.
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Post a CommentI've been there a long time
Sep 18, 2022 at 7:37am
How could I not?
Have you seen the ass on me?
I do.
Sep 18, 2022 at 3:33pm
Masturbation Monday.
Self loathing
Sep 18, 2022 at 9:55pm
I self loath myself. It helps me be a little less pretentious around my friends. They seem to hate me for it, but then again, I hate me too.
Are you sure it's not just a crush?
Sep 19, 2022 at 5:03pm
I mean you hardly know each other. And plus you are always cleaning up after yourself!! It's so annoying.
@ Challenge yourself. Its euphoric
Sep 19, 2022 at 7:27pm
Thank you. I'm very challenged and need to remind myself of that regularly. When lost, doesn't it make sense to find help from those who have had the experience of going through these challenges and figured out where real help is? The caution is however, is that there are so many skillful deceivers selling counterfeit help. That's where proper discernment need activate our inner radar. The teaching of my people is that helpers must always have a separate trade or profession to feed their family, and never charge $$ or advertise their services. That alone weeds out the frauds. OCM Sto'lo Coast Salish salutations.
Re: are you sure
Sep 19, 2022 at 8:15pm
What the hell is with with this comment. The person is confessing self love…where do you get crush from? Also, what does anything have to do with cleaning? Are you okay?
@@are you sure
Sep 20, 2022 at 6:59am
Whoa! Geddy up there little sister!
You are full of hostility, lady.
It's you who are definitely not ok.
I look around
Sep 20, 2022 at 2:26pm
at the world and its ways ask myself what is worth trying to do, where I want to be, amongst who do I want to be? I can't come up with anything.
@Re
Sep 20, 2022 at 7:23pm
Well said. I guess some egos need the illusion of being the centre, or crush, in every story.
Not buying into this
Sep 20, 2022 at 7:44pm
This whole idea of having to love ourselves seems silly to me. I think the majority of people born before the 60’s are likely a lot more pragmatic than that. I think it’s more about respecting and valuing yourself and your own needs than it is about “loving” yourself. I’m more interested in loving other people than I am in loving myself, but I also know that I have intrinsic value too, just as everyone does. So putting my own needs first sometimes and being comfortable with who I am as a person and my right to be treated well is perfectly reasonable.
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