I don’t think it’s wrong, but I also don’t think it’s realistic to expect to have a normal relationship with either of them. I don’t buy into the concept that people can have a romantic relationship with more than one person at a time without at least one person getting the raw deal. People who claim to be happy in a 3-way situation are frequently only doing it because the person they’re in love with wants it, and they’re willing to sacrifice fidelity just to keep the relationship. I’ve had several relationships in my long lifetime. But I was never interested in being with anyone else when I was genuinely in love with the person I was with. I remain unconvinced that someone can be truly in love with more than one person at a time.

Oh so you think your big enough of a man to share your " love" equally between the two women ?
Let me ask you this.
Do both women know about each other ?
Cause if they don't, guess what that makes you Shitty.
Now there are different kinds of love, you love your mom, you love your dog, you love a friend, you love chocolate cake.
But if your having sex with both of them and they are not aware of each other, once again that makes you Shitty.
Merry Christmas

Are they aware of each other? If you haven't told them is it because you know they would close their legs and take their love from you? If this is the case it's not about your love for them, it's all about them loving you and you just loving yourself.