I've been pondering lately.....posted November 23rd, 2022 at 9:13 PM Who's all getting laid this weekend?? Show 5 Comments 5 Comments Post a Comment Maybe it would help your personal lifeDec 9, 2022 at 5:16pmif you ponder upon your own social needs. AnonymousDec 9, 2022 at 7:59pmApparently not you !Bahah Baha bahahaHad to make my post long enough Baha ! LedondaDec 9, 2022 at 9:19pmWell I'm married so AnonymousDec 11, 2022 at 7:13amThat's none of your business. Not me :)Dec 12, 2022 at 8:42pmBut then, I could give the same answer for the past ~1768 weeks as well.Having sex with the wrong person has always had this semi-mysterious off-putting quality to it, and the repelling part has only increased extremely for me in the last ~7 years or so.If it isn't utter electric resonance in all the right ways down to our very core; if it isn't melting into an ocean of love, if it's not effortless tele-empathic mergence, understanding and compatibility, then I... don't seem to want anything physically sexual, even if I find a person very attractive otherwise.That might be perceived as unrealistic by some, but that's the relational "it" factor that I can't live without. I also know that people with that kind and degree of chemistry exist - they're just very rare.It doesn't help that I've been in an absolutely terrible state for over a decade at this point due to cruel, forced circumstances outside of my control, but ... change is a constant, as they say. Even if it's excruciatingly slow.~ Cocoon person Join the Discussion Your name Comment * your name What's your name?