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I'm a cis gay man & I have a crush on a cute guy in my building, thing is he's married....but here's the thing, his wife apparently has cancer and is receiving treatment at St Paul's.....I kind of hope it doesn't turn out well for her...yes I'm a jerk but, maybe he will change his mind about me.


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Jan 31, 2023 at 6:54pm

Hoping that the lover of someone you're attracted to literally deteriorates and dies so that you might have a chance with them is pretty terrible, not gonna lie.

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Jan 31, 2023 at 7:38pm

I didn't downvote but I think your quite stupid.
He's married to a woman so you think onces the wife is dead all of a sudden he will be gay.
Ridiculous and mean really.
Catfishing are you?

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Huh, I like it.

Jan 31, 2023 at 9:50pm

I gave you an upvote because it's an interesting confession, in a city where most people are rather bland. Cheers,

He's straight

Jan 31, 2023 at 10:34pm

Get over it. Wishing someone's partner dead? That's so disgusting.

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Ewww, as if

Feb 1, 2023 at 12:15am

Okay, I've been crushing on a straight married guy for a while (actually he's been sending racy messages about wanting to run his hands all over my body and secretly flirting even though he says he's not gay so... yeah... but that's a whole other deal & I'm supporting his staying in the marriage until they work out how she can be well-looked after & set on a more fulfilling path of love because it's not her fault—or his, really—that he's going through fighting repression in a midlife sexuality crisis thanks to years of Catholic guilt) but even I would NEVER—and I mean NEVER EVER—wish his 2-dimensional, materialistic, pedestrian, dough-headed yet innocently lovely and affable wife ANY harm whatsoever, never mind death, and most definitely if she were going through something as torturous and painful as cancer treatments. That is beyond ugly.
I think that if he could even remotely suspect it is you, that he will change his mind about you all right: that what he thought was a nice neighbour is a completely selfish monster. For you to think this is okay is repulsive. You think you're a jerk? No, that's too kind on your own part. You need to do some real soul-searching if you're that desperate for company. Blech... yuck... gross.

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Are you for real??!!

Feb 1, 2023 at 6:52am

That's just plain sick.

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Feb 1, 2023 at 9:22am

For the brutal honesty.


Feb 1, 2023 at 11:42pm

You're a narcissist and deserve all the bad karma coming your way. How dare you wish ill on someone else. You should be ashamed.

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Feb 2, 2023 at 2:54pm

These types of narcissists hate women so much.

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Feb 2, 2023 at 10:43pm

Boo to you

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