Many men are single
posted February 27th, 2023 at 4:15 PM
Because men are bloody exhausted. Its so damn tiring to keep up with all the expectations from every direction. Men are taking a time out. We need rest. Deal with it.
posted February 27th, 2023 at 4:15 PM
Dan offers some advice on where she might find it.
We met at Trinity B.C. you asked me a question about forgiveness and I gave you an answer which...
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Giving you a big hug
Feb 27, 2023 at 6:16pm
Sending love. Rest well and easy.
The main reason there are so many single people
Feb 27, 2023 at 6:50pm
Is because we humans are increasingly divided and conquered. We were not created as solitary creatures like some bird species or mountain lions who only briefly get together once a year to mate and then live in social isolation. Our human ancestors lived in extended families and tribes until recently but now we are increasingly in the lonely zone. But fug dat! There's many good hearted ones out there. Reach out and humbly attain what you need.
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Feb 27, 2023 at 7:36pm
In case it’s escaped your attention, women have been exhausted FOREVER. So whatever, take as much time as you like. The women I know are basically just done feeling sorry for you guys or being held responsible for everything that’s wrong with all relationships. We have been blamed for as far back as history has recorded, including the bible. We’re blamed as mothers and we’re blamed as wives / partners. So excuse us if we’re just fed up. It’s time for men to stop whining and comprehend that you will need to change, because women are not going back to what they used to have to tolerate, no matter how much you all wish they would. In case you don’t understand just how things truly are for the vast majority of women in the world, take a look at how many countries have appalling attitudes towards women and they have almost no true human rights. The US is trying it’s best to remove a lot of the rights of women that were fought for decades ago, but most women aren’t giving in so easily. The phrase “check your privilege” really applies to men, but most of you are too busy feeling sorry for yourselves to take a step back and reflect on why women feel the way they do.
Feb 27, 2023 at 9:35pm
Men are 1.5 times more likely than women to die from heart disease, cancer and respiratory diseases, I guess that's the privilege of living in "a man's world".
Feb 27, 2023 at 11:24pm
Many men are single not because they're exhausted, but because women simply won't have them. Most men are physically unattractive and they don't have much in the way of wealth and status. In the past, most women were generally coerced into marriage through societal pressure. Patriarchy basically. But that's eroded a great deal now, and because women excel in the workforce and don't need marriage for financial security, they've found that they really like being single. I don't think women get lonely and crave romantic relationships the way men do. Women, despite incel-fueled accusations that they're secretly miserable being alone, actually love it.
So I'm afraid you're wrong OP. Men aren't taking a "time out," because that falsely implies that men staying single is a choice. For the most part, it's not.
Many women will consider a guy who looks like a contestant on "The Bachelor," but if you're just an average man who doesn't fit that mold, and you're looking for a woman who's actually a good catch, then you're out of luck. Deal with it.
Feb 27, 2023 at 11:46pm
are single for the same reasons!! Maybe it’s not a guy thing?
Feb 28, 2023 at 12:18am
For real? Just men eh? O-K. Keep telling yourself this cute story about how you’re the only ones put upon and burnt out. Literally everyone is struggling except the 1% so maybe you’re one of or surrounded by this crowd but here’s your reality check. You’re not special.
goes both ways
Feb 28, 2023 at 8:06am
everyone is exhausted. have a toke.
Feb 28, 2023 at 9:56am
But for myself,and almost every guy I know- we're just too busy trying to get ahead so we can get out of this impossible place.
Just don't have the time nor energy to put out in entertaining a woman, dealing with her drama and emotional hurdles, her social media gossip, etc.
Feb 28, 2023 at 10:55am
During the pandemic I kind of fell apart. Lost my job. Lost my dad to Covid. I fell into a deep depression. One day i was on the couch with the GF. I saw an old picture of my dad on my phone. I lost it. Started to cry. I reached out to my GF for a moment of comfort. She recoiled. I still remember the look on her face. She said “im sorry but I cant handle this… I need you to be the strong one”. She broke up with me the next day.
As men. We are on our own. No one cares.
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