I don’t getposted March 21st, 2023 at 6:40 PM Why you would dedicate so much of your life to being an obsessive asshole. Leave me the fuck alone Show 5 Comments 5 Comments Post a Comment Quit projectingMar 23, 2023 at 2:35amIt is YOU who is dedicating your life to them. You keep feeding the very energy you're complaining about by continuing to engage in that person every time you continue to steer your attention on them and respond with them as the subject. Every time you do, you send the biggest signal that you want to still think about them.Let it go.Stop giving any energy into whatever is capturing your attention. Stop looking for evidence, which is also you feeding the situation because guess what? You're back to spending time thinking about them. Look elsewhere, put your attention elsewhere, and get on with your life instead of continuing to think about whoever you are complaining about. Until you do, the only thing you're proving is that you want to think about them and that you are thinking about them. Very obsessive, btw. BoyMar 23, 2023 at 5:00amThat sure sounds like my severely mentally ill brother. Too sick and stupid to know he's sick and stupid. No sympathy for him, he's a relationship wrecking ball. Tried for many years to help him but for nought. Toxic Toxic Toxic Ugh step offMar 25, 2023 at 10:49amI have no idea why. I think it's about not wanting to give up power, but we have very different views of power I guess, bcuz I have no idea what they're getting out of it. Probably nothing. No idea why. Dr. RealMar 28, 2023 at 2:03pmDo you think I had a choice? But to mirror back every mistreatment I've ever had to endure... @drrealMar 28, 2023 at 5:32pmYou forget every mistreatment you put out. Like, a lot more than you received, which was just in response to the BS you put out. You have this huge problem with ownership, as in you don't take any ownership for your own actions. You never apologize, never have.Very narcissistic, actually; you are just like trump, expecting complete adoration and loyalty but the first to ditch anyone who had problems. You ditched me when I was bullied, you disappeared when I was in a place of loss, and you somehow think you deserve undenying loyalty when you couldn't even return an email, never mind make a phone call or even have a coffee.Tell me, what again have you ever brought to the table? Oh right...NOTHING. Goodbye. Join the Discussion Your name Comment * your name What's your name?