They'll be waiting forever

I was done chasing for a while already. The goalposts kept moving, the bar kept getting raised, they brought so little to the table and thought far too highly of themselves to measure up to their expectations. I "heard" they're still interested but only if I do all the chasing. Seriously. They are not heroin and they ceased being my hero. And I can tell you this: they're going to be waiting—alone—for a very, very, very long time. I'm past wasting any more effort or time when I deserve something far more equal, respectful, and satisfying. I don't chase pretend relationship dragons. But the person that I predict I will eventually be involved in—who will make very it easy to be with— thanks Mr. Goalpost-mover for all their "efforts" as he drives me out of their his into theirs with his need to be clever and in control. Good times.


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Dr. Real

Mar 6, 2023 at 12:57pm

What do you even bring to the table? besides sex, judgement & drama?

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Mar 6, 2023 at 5:03pm

What’s funny about Mr Goalpost mover is that he does exactly the same thing with every woman he’s with. He also likes to triangulate by comparing his current person with a different one in order to make that person feel jealous and insecure. But eventually we all got tired of the games and stopped playing. Now he’s lost and confused as he begins to comprehend the true state of his situation. He’s either got to acknowledge the damage he’s done and make actual efforts to change his ways, or he’s going to spend the rest of his life alone. Eventually looks aren’t going to be enough because we all age whether we like it or not. So you’d better make sure that you’ve got something else going for you, or get used to your own company.

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Mar 6, 2023 at 10:07pm

Is this a sports oriented post.
Girl you got game but nobody cares .
Play ball !

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Mar 8, 2023 at 7:33pm

Lots. Laughter (none that you see much of anymore, thanks to your behaviour), insight (as a narcissist, you don't see how you need improvement, but it's always been n the offer), experience, support, caring and compassion. The last three you stopped seeing, again thanks to your behaviour.
What do you bring to the table? Besides games, deceit, misery, abandonment, apathy, usury and manevolent malice?
Please, share this with us.
I thought so. Crickets. In every interaction, you go silent when called on your crap or asked to prove how I am mistaken. You are the person who wishes harm and a world of misery and pain on the one you won't let go of.
Until you change (we both know you won't), you'll be waiting ...alone in a crowd...forever...while the person that I predict I will eventually be involved in—who will make very it easy to be with—will thank you for all your "efforts" as you drive me out of your arms into theirs with your need to be clever and in control.
As I said, good times, and the person you can thank is always waiting in your bathroom mirror. ;)

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