Calling out a liar

posted May 15th, 2023 at 1:21 AM

I so want to tell this guy that I know he’s intentionally trying to mislead me. I have proof. But I won’t do that because it’s too much fun letting him dig himself into an even bigger hole. On the other hand I feel like a fool for allowing myself to give him another chance. Good thing I’m not too invested this time because the smart part of me knew it was just a matter of time before those true colours showed up again. He just can’t help himself.

9 Comments

thanks :)

May 15, 2023 at 10:04pm

I suspected he+/she would be utterly discovered and publicly revealed soonish, finally

You are living a delusion chunky love

May 15, 2023 at 11:45pm

kidding yourself yet again.

If this is you I will be so pissed!

May 16, 2023 at 6:40am

Bitch I'm not a fucking liar and it's not my fault and if you don't know how much my heart greaves you you truly fu

Time is valuable

May 16, 2023 at 7:02am

Just dump the guy and don't waste the time you'll never get back. There could very well be some better guy with integrity waiting on you to cut those ties before asking you out.

The high

May 16, 2023 at 6:44pm

You're amped up by the conflict. Bail now and save yourself the trouble, unless that is specifically what you're getting off on.

Anonymous

May 17, 2023 at 5:54pm

If you know he's a liar then why would you give him another chance. You sound like a drama queen.

@you are

May 17, 2023 at 8:31pm

That’s what liars and gaslighters usually say. “You’re imagining it.” “You’re crazy.” Or, “You’re delusional.” I’m none of the above. I ignored the signs over and over again because I didn’t want it to be true. I wanted my dream to be the reality. But it never was so now I’ve made my peace with it. But holy crap it still hurts.

@Time

May 18, 2023 at 5:15pm

We’re not dating. I should have been more clear. Just someone I have known for years and who tends to be very secretive and elusive about what he’s up to, and it makes it hard to trust what he tells you. I always think that people who act that way have something to hide, or else they want you to think they do. Either way it’s no good so I regularly distance myself and try to avoid getting involved in anything he’s trying to set up.