Thinking of how someone else feels, or caring about how what they’re doing affects another person isn’t in their wheelhouse. They only care about themselves. They use everyone to fulfill their own needs and as soon as you’re not exactly what they want they lose interest. Hurting people means nothing to them, but what you’re doing by posting all this stuff is feeding into their ego big time. Knowing they have the power to hurt someone is what they feed off of. They’re like vampires who only exist off of other people’s blood. I’m sorry you’re in so much pain. Those of us who’ve been through this too can really understand how you feel. These people have the power to destroy others by building them up and tearing them down. The pain is brutal. Just know that you can get through this and there is nothing wrong with you for falling for a manipulative charmer who is an expert at using people. The messed up person is him, and he cannot be fixed.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

You are right….