Older woman

I’m 35 and recently have gotten into an open relationship with a woman 17 years older than me. She’s absolutely gorgeous and so sweet to me. She’s really helped me feel that there are some really amazing women out there after someone I was with a long long time was absolutely horrible to me all the time. Thank you universe for putting this absolute goddess of a woman in my life.


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Love this confession!

May 30, 2023 at 8:33pm

It's amazing to finally break on through to the other side of a toxic relationship and have the universe show us what real romantic connections should look and feel like.

It's great that you are returning the energy by recognizing her as a goddess.

Wishing the two of you all the best :)

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Now if she was a much younger women

May 30, 2023 at 8:49pm

Say 18 or 19 or 20.....you would be getting tons of downvotes....& people would be tearing you apart.

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It will pass

May 31, 2023 at 2:19am

Congratulations. Lots of nurturing & learning, right? Eventually, though, as you get comfortable, you'll find how you don't have much in common outside of the mentoring & mothering, given you are from different generations. That love interest will also show signs of aging sooner than you will and you'll notice it. A turning point while having sex will happen as you realize you'll want someone closer to your age. Eventually, you'll discard them for a younger model because it's a story as old as time that rarely lasts unless money is involved. They want to feel young and you want someone to mother you.
Do you and them a favor: cut the ties before someone gets hurt, which is likely too late.

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@ It will pass

May 31, 2023 at 1:56pm

OP said it's an open relationship, which tells me expectations have been communicated and managed realistically on both sides.

As long as both are getting something from the connection (and it sounds like they are), I don't see the issue. Relationships are an ongoing process of conscious awareness, not a given of forever.

With that said, I do think we are headed toward a cultural shift of younger men / older women dynamics that are committed and long-lasting.

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@it will pass

May 31, 2023 at 8:11pm

True love sees beyond the vessel it's carried in.

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But how can we be sure these days

May 31, 2023 at 10:33pm

That's she is not a musk-bot?

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@it will pass

Jun 1, 2023 at 9:41am

that's cute. Anyone who isn't thoroughly immortal and you cannot use Consciousness as cause abilities to extremes is already off the list for anyone that I'm actually interested in due to the tragedy of not being Immortal and your children having to watch the parents die and or vice versa.

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Sounds great

Jun 2, 2023 at 10:51am

Women in my age group seem really immature and fond of playing games.

Im in my late 30’s btw. Lol i hate this city

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OP @itwillpass

Jun 2, 2023 at 2:49pm

Yeah as I said it’s a completely open relationship because we’ve discussed all of these things and she has no intention of being with only me or getting married etc… I definitely do not want a mother at all and she doesn’t treat me like a child. We just enjoy talking and going on romantic dates and having wild sex. I don’t have any expectations other than good company and good memories.

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Don’t assume

Jun 7, 2023 at 7:25pm

People who think that the older woman in this type of relationship is always going to be the one who wants more or gets hurt are wrong. Sometimes that older woman is just interested in a casual relationship with good sex. I dated a much younger man when I was in my 50’s and he was in his late 20’s. He was a really nice guy and very smart and interesting. What I couldn’t handle though was being around his friends, because at that point I felt like a chaperone or something because we had nothing in common. One on one with him it was good, but it couldn’t work for a serious relationship. I was the one who ended it and I was fine with that, but he got hurt because he wanted more than I did from the relationship.

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