But you joined that site, so these are the kind of people you can expect to meet on there. Don’t hold your breath for the most sophisticated users on FetLife. I am a man and will tell you through experience that there was this strange woman on there in an open marriage who kept asking me to send her dick pics. I refused because unless I’m in a serious committed relationship with a woman, I do not send pictures of my private parts to anyone. No way Jose. I never have, and never will.

Went to a kink site and saw a penis, huh, interesting.

But for the wrong reason: if they want sure fire action, they ought to post pix of their good sized bank account or other similar items

Maybe the dicks get a look at each and that's how they make a love match.
Interested concept :)

They must have one ugly head on top of their shoulders to post their dick as their profile picture.

Perhaps they post the dick pics for the men, not the women.

... are size queens, so showing off the size of the penis can help them make a decision. It's just a penis. If you don't want to see it, what, you want to feel it?