My Experience

posted June 3rd, 2023 at 3:38 PM

I am an average looking guy but I work out a lot so I am in really good shape. I have a regular office job as well. I don't quite understand why so many guys are saying its so hard to meet women. I walk down the street and a few women smile at me. Last night I was out and this drunk woman was screaming at me and wanted my name and number. On dating sites I can get 1 or 2 dates a week. I think guys just need to get in shape and put themselves out there to get women. Just hanging out at home using Tinder isn't going to do it. I am tired of guys saying that women in Vancouver are awful.

8 Comments

Good for you

Jun 5, 2023 at 1:10pm

But a lot of women actually like thin guys rather than muscle heads.

Speak for yourself

Jun 5, 2023 at 1:56pm

We are all unique and many have their own unique challenges. Perhaps you are trying to be helpful by trying to advise as you do, but another way to help is to volunteer your time to feed the hungry, heal the sick, protect the victems and free the captives.

Anonymous

Jun 5, 2023 at 4:01pm

Well good for you getting out there meeting some ladies. All men have to do it try.
You figured it out :)

Yeah Sure

Jun 6, 2023 at 5:55pm

You did..then you woke up.

Oh Please

Jun 6, 2023 at 9:11pm

So obviously fake.

Anonymous

Jun 7, 2023 at 7:52am

Sir if I could bottle and sell your confidence and then sell it as an aphrodisiac we wouldn’t be having this conversation

It’s true

Jun 7, 2023 at 6:57pm

I think it’s funny how often guys complain that they don’t know what women want and then they ignore us when we tell them. The Op is right. We appreciate a guy who takes care of himself (you don’t have to be muscle bound to be fit) and who has self confidence. Not an arrogant jerk, but just regular self confidence. It’s very attractive and a man doesn’t have to be that good looking if he’s got that. Be a genuinely nice person with a good personality, take pains to dress yourself with some style, and be a good listener who is respectful. Trust me there are tons of women out there who would be very happy to find a guy like that. The whole bs whining about how all women want are rich guys over 6’ tall is just garbage. I think it’s just an excuse for men who aren’t successful with women to lean on so they don’t have to take an honest look at what they truly have to offer.