There happens to be a certain point where lusting after an unrealized relationship ruins all chance of it ever being successful IF it was even requited. I don't know exactly when this point happens, it might depend on your age and gender, but it's definitely less than the 13-14 years I've thought about them. So why do I still dream?


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I have a theory on that…

Nov 30, 2023 at 9:06pm

I think that if you were still in love with the person (or infatuated if you weren’t in a genuine relationship) when it ended (or never began), it’s unfinished business in your mind. Whereas if you had a relationship that lasted for some time but then eventually just fizzled out and you no longer felt that same spark for them, it’s much easier to move on. Having experienced both types myself, I can say with conviction that the ones that ended when I didn’t want them to, even if it was I who ended it because I felt that I had no other choice, have been the ones where I’m still thinking of them long after it ended.

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Dec 1, 2023 at 3:08pm

Real relationships beat fake relationships

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Dec 4, 2023 at 1:25pm

maybe you are still dreaming, because they are still dreaming too?...
just food for thought.

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