The irony

The people I know who are the quickest to label someone else as judgemental, are also the most judgemental people I know. (Yes, I know : ) )

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'Judgemental' is an interesting word

Mar 12, 2024 at 11:01am

We do need an enlightened and fair judicial system, but unfortunately so much informal person on person judging in human relations is, those quick to Judge are Mental, as in mentally ill.

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Lol yep

Mar 12, 2024 at 4:33pm

Same deal with the ones that are quickest to label people selfish.

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Judgemental

Mar 12, 2024 at 6:00pm

There's being judgemental and then there's being judgemental. There's a difference. The difference being in how you judge and what you judge. Everyone has to judge though. If you don't judge it's just a matter of time when someone will pull you with them into their downward spiral dragging you away from your values and use you as their rug to wipe their feet on before leaving you to drown in the mud. Never forget that.

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Judgment Pride Now!

Mar 13, 2024 at 12:25pm

I've always owned the fact that I'm judgmental. It saved my life in the backwater shithole where I grew up... and many times since then.

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i judge, everyone does

Mar 13, 2024 at 3:37pm

i judge where to place my foot every time I take a step.
I judge if the person approaching me is a threat.
we all judge.
the real problem is the liars who spread fake rumors about others so others judge them to be assholes etc.
i let people, regardless of how they look reveal themselves to me, unless they are acting crazily or aggressively or want money or cigarettes.

if someone wants money or anything from me i say "No", as i judge them to be users of people.
I am not your mark.

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@ Judgemental

Mar 13, 2024 at 6:58pm

It sounds like you’re talking about using discernment to avoid being taken advantage of and choose who to share time/energy with. Which is all very reasonable.

My impression is that the OP is referring to people who yap about other people’s qualities, behaviours, and life choices and are taken aback when people do the same to them.

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@@judgemental (6:58 pm)

Mar 14, 2024 at 7:14pm

Yes. The people I’ve personally known who are quick to label others as being too judgemental are actually the most judgemental of everyone else I know. They think it’s acceptable because the people they’re pointing fingers at have more money or “status” than they do, but those same people aren’t sitting in judgement of them in return. I get to listen to both sides because I’m friends with lots of different people. So it’s interesting that the people who claim that they’re being judged are actually the ones doing all the judging. The other ones aren’t talking about them at all, and when they do it’s with kindness.

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She

Mar 15, 2024 at 5:17pm

I always tell people I am judgemental. Everybody is! It’s a matter of what degree of judgemental. One has to judge to decide what friends you want to meet, keep. Unless you are the type that would hang out and be friends with anybody. Then you would yourself in danger .
I think as long as we don’t judge people by what they do as a job, by what they wear, by their social status, by their face ( if they are good looking or not ), by their size, by their wealth, or by their education.
It’s their attitude, mannerism, character that counts.

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