Not a Fetish

I am a big girl and its so hard to meet a decent guy who loves me for me. I am 5'0 and 250 pounds and I am curvy in all the right places. I just wish I could meet a guy who didn't treat me like some kind of fetish.


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Beauty is only skin deep

Mar 11, 2024 at 10:58am

But ugly goes right to the bone so we should focus on what's important in life and not get pulled into other peoples traumas

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Well OP

Mar 11, 2024 at 2:27pm

Instead of blaming men why not work on yourself?

Wake up call

Mar 11, 2024 at 6:43pm

I’m sorry to have to tell you this, but as a veteran of love wars and several relationships, I think the concept of a guy who just loves you for who you are is nothing more than a myth. Call me jaded, but if you talk to any other woman I suspect you’ll hear the same thing.

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I think I’m having Deja vu

Mar 11, 2024 at 10:07pm

Keep your spirits up, stay positive, & good luck in the search.
I envy your confidence.
(I’m 5’6” and 148 and wish I was around 20 lbs less)

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@Wake up

Mar 12, 2024 at 12:10pm

Like how women do the same unless a guy makes a lot of money, and ignore guys under 6 feet?

I've been on both sides of the former,and it is 1000x easier to date when the cash is flowing in.

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Plenty Out there

Mar 12, 2024 at 10:59pm

What about all the guys working in gas stations, doing non high value jobs, who don't have a lot of any sort of standing...would they be well beneath your standards?

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@@wake up

Mar 14, 2024 at 5:36am

You do realize that this nonsense was just something made up by a guy who couldn’t get a woman, right? He had to find some way to justify his own lack of success with women by blaming it on their unrealistic expectations. If you talk to real women and ask them what they’re looking for in a partner, they will tell you that this trope is just that. Of course everyone has a “dream person” in terms of how they would like them to look, but that doesn’t mean that everyone expects to get that dream. Like if you asked a guy what his dream woman would look like he’d probably have some pretty unrealistic standards too. Take a look on any social media platform and see how many women make posts talking about how they will only date men that fit this “6-6-6” standard. Good luck finding one. Take a look around you in real life and you’ll see a LOT of women with men who don’t fit that description. If men really want to understand what women are looking for, they should stop listening to other men and start listening to the women!

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@ @@Wakeup

Mar 14, 2024 at 11:05am

You talk about how many women post the 666 standard...then you tell us to listen to women LOL.
And for those other women- they feel they have "settled" only after getting desperate. Oh and BTW, women rate 80% of men as being below average so there goes your argument.

Don't ask fish for advice on catching them- ask the other fishermen

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@@@@wake up

Mar 14, 2024 at 7:19pm

Try reading what I said again. I didn’t say that women post about only wanting the 6-6-6. They don’t. It’s men posting that crap. But typically you’re a guy who doesn’t listen to what a woman says. LOL!

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@@@@ wake up

Mar 15, 2024 at 4:18am

No. Read what I said. Women do NOT post about wanting that. Men do. The same men who, just like you, refuse to listen to real women talking about what they really want. If it doesn’t fit your agenda, you don’t hear it.

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