No looks from girls

Whenever I'm with my female friend (we're just friends, not girlfriend/boyfriend to let people know), I notice some guys looking at her with, as in admiring her, yet no girls look at me the same way & I do look to see if they do, but of course nope, never happens :(

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Z not Zed

Jul 18, 2012 at 12:40am

Do you walk slouching over looking at the ground as if you are consumed with sadness? Stand up tall, why not workout a bit. Get in better shape, improve your confidence (everybody could use more confidence!). Don't allow other people, and their actions (whether they look or not) to define how you perceive yourself.

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Ninja peeker

Jul 18, 2012 at 8:12am

I may look at a guy , but if he's with a woman out of respect for my gender and myself I don't look as much as I would if he were alone . Plus I don't want to look to closely at what I can't have , lol . Just my perspective for ya :-)

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Natty

Jul 18, 2012 at 12:24pm

They could very well be looking at you. By and large, females are far more subtle than males.

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who

Jul 18, 2012 at 4:28pm

Who told you life was fair? You're just figuring this out now?

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Eliot

Jul 19, 2012 at 9:25am

As a female, I often get checked out by men when I'm with my boyfriend. He however, rarely seems to get checked out by women when we're together.
I was kind of surprised when I realized this, but I think it comes down to what Natty said: women are just way more subtle. And actually, he does gets checked out by guys, especially in certain parts of town, so yeah... maybe a slight difference in how the sexes approach other.

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HULK

Jul 19, 2012 at 10:34am

GIVE UP ON WANTING GIRL SO BAD. DESPERATION SMELL LIKE FUCKUSHIMA FISH. ME SMELL IT HERE. HULK SAY SMASH PARADIGM. WANT EQUAL SUFFERING. HULK KNOW SO HULK SMASH. WHEN TIME RIGHT WOMAN COME. K.

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From "No looks from girls"

Jul 19, 2012 at 4:33pm

Okay, but she's NOT my girlfriend, we are ONLY FRIENDS & we do nothing to suggest that we are a couple, BECAUSE WE ARE NOT, so please let's get that straight.

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P-F

Jul 19, 2012 at 6:48pm

You are not 'friends.'. There's no such thing between m & f. Admit it - you'd go for it if you thought you had a chance.

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ethos

Jul 20, 2012 at 3:29am

i think it's pretty rare for girls to blatantly check out guys. it's just the culture/get used to it/take control of the situation.

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Chickiepoo

Jul 20, 2012 at 6:58am

@"From 'No looks from girls'" - yes, she's not your GF but you are not wearing a sign that says "She's not my GF". You are walking together - and to all us single women out there, that suggests you are a couple.

I agree with Ninja Peeker - another woman's man is 'off-limits' and if I see a man and woman together, I assume they're a couple, and don't check him out. Period. And I certainly wouldn't smile at him. (I know that if I were out with my man, I wouldn't like it if women were checking HIM out, so I'm respectful in the same way.)

So the problem isn't YOU, sweetie - it's just that women are different than men. See if it's any different if you're walking with a guy friend - I betcha it is!

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