No looks from girls
posted July 17th, 2012 at 6:14 PM
Whenever I'm with my female friend (we're just friends, not girlfriend/boyfriend to let people know), I notice some guys looking at her with, as in admiring her, yet no girls look at me the same way & I do look to see if they do, but of course nope, never happens :(
12 Comments
Post a CommentZ not Zed
Jul 18, 2012 at 12:40am
Do you walk slouching over looking at the ground as if you are consumed with sadness? Stand up tall, why not workout a bit. Get in better shape, improve your confidence (everybody could use more confidence!). Don't allow other people, and their actions (whether they look or not) to define how you perceive yourself.
Ninja peeker
Jul 18, 2012 at 8:12am
I may look at a guy , but if he's with a woman out of respect for my gender and myself I don't look as much as I would if he were alone . Plus I don't want to look to closely at what I can't have , lol . Just my perspective for ya :-)
Natty
Jul 18, 2012 at 12:24pm
They could very well be looking at you. By and large, females are far more subtle than males.
who
Jul 18, 2012 at 4:28pm
Who told you life was fair? You're just figuring this out now?
Eliot
Jul 19, 2012 at 9:25am
As a female, I often get checked out by men when I'm with my boyfriend. He however, rarely seems to get checked out by women when we're together.
I was kind of surprised when I realized this, but I think it comes down to what Natty said: women are just way more subtle. And actually, he does gets checked out by guys, especially in certain parts of town, so yeah... maybe a slight difference in how the sexes approach other.
HULK
Jul 19, 2012 at 10:34am
GIVE UP ON WANTING GIRL SO BAD. DESPERATION SMELL LIKE FUCKUSHIMA FISH. ME SMELL IT HERE. HULK SAY SMASH PARADIGM. WANT EQUAL SUFFERING. HULK KNOW SO HULK SMASH. WHEN TIME RIGHT WOMAN COME. K.
From "No looks from girls"
Jul 19, 2012 at 4:33pm
Okay, but she's NOT my girlfriend, we are ONLY FRIENDS & we do nothing to suggest that we are a couple, BECAUSE WE ARE NOT, so please let's get that straight.
P-F
Jul 19, 2012 at 6:48pm
You are not 'friends.'. There's no such thing between m & f. Admit it - you'd go for it if you thought you had a chance.
ethos
Jul 20, 2012 at 3:29am
i think it's pretty rare for girls to blatantly check out guys. it's just the culture/get used to it/take control of the situation.
Chickiepoo
Jul 20, 2012 at 6:58am
@"From 'No looks from girls'" - yes, she's not your GF but you are not wearing a sign that says "She's not my GF". You are walking together - and to all us single women out there, that suggests you are a couple.
I agree with Ninja Peeker - another woman's man is 'off-limits' and if I see a man and woman together, I assume they're a couple, and don't check him out. Period. And I certainly wouldn't smile at him. (I know that if I were out with my man, I wouldn't like it if women were checking HIM out, so I'm respectful in the same way.)
So the problem isn't YOU, sweetie - it's just that women are different than men. See if it's any different if you're walking with a guy friend - I betcha it is!
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