Its O.K.

It is so hard to find a decent man in the lower mainland. You know someone who wants a commitment that will lead to marriage and kids. I make $90,000 a year and its o.k. if the man I am with makes a little less than me. I don't care about how much money you make as long as you do good honorable work. I am tired of dating these guys with no jobs or ambition who think dating 5 or 6 girls is acceptable. I should be your number one. When I text you - you should text me back. Don't wait an hour or two to respond. I just need one decent guy to spend the rest of my life with and then I will be happy.

Hoping gas prices rise!

I hope gas prices rise For me it has meant reassessing how much money I'm giving gas stations, big oil and the albortions who support them Now I take transit whenever I can My car stays parked unless I really need it If we all did this it would be a major kick in the balls to dirty tar sand oil, and the albortions who support it (no matter how much it endangers others) TAKE TRANSIT BC!!! It's faster in rush hour than your car!

Money stuff

Most of us are uncomfortable talking about money publicly. I’m wondering much money do you need to make annually to feel secure and comfortable? And how much savings do you have? I’m 42 yrs, make 120k annually, saved up 600k in RRSP, TFSA and savings. No debt besides mortgage. I still have moments where I worry it’s not enough. I grew up dirt poor so that probably impacts my view of money.

I confess!

I wish I was the ruler of the world. I’d stop factory farming and mass production of plastics. I’d abolish oil and make sure we lived sustainably. Solar power would be the only power. My life would be pure bliss and I’d never be bored because I’d travel all over the world in my personal solar powered flying saucer admiring gorgeous architecture and world class art. I’d make sure that artists everywhere were creating more beauty for us to admire by paying them high salaries. I’d donate money to developing nations and make sure everyone everywhere had clean drinking water and enough food to live comfortably. Male humans would have vasectomies at birth to manage population. There would be an end to war and famine and we’d all live happily ever after. The end.


What is it with sellers online who post their USED furniture for so much in asking price?! So many times I'm shocked to see junk from Ikea for sale so close to retail prices but the description says "condition as is" People are delusional, who think their stuff is worth way more than it actually is.

Give Love

I have three amazing kids and they're my life. I have been divorced for the past 2 years and am having so much trouble getting out there. Once single guys hear I have kids they lose all interest. My kids already have a dad so I don't understand why guys are like this. I am not telling them to take my kids to the park or a hockey game. I am a great mom, an amazing cook, and easy on the eyes. Men should be begging to date me. Single moms deserve love just like everyone else.

Love is in the air

And I’ve been loving my husband and my boyfriend and a handful of other lovely men.

I finally figured out what to put in my will

I'm single with no kids. I've worked hard my whole life. I've never been given anything by anyone who is still alive. Everything I have, I earned. In my will, I will stipulate that my properties will be sold, my collections liquidated, my investments cashed out. All that money shall be collected and then burned.

If I could turn back time

I would go back to that first day in grade 8 during gym class. A group of kids were impressed with my skills with a basketball. I was fast and accurate. I could run at full sprint while while dribbling the ball, and I could always sink it into the basket even at a distance. No one could keep up. Anyway, I saw that they were bullying a kid I went to elementary with, and they called me over and asked if I wanted to hangout with them. I declined, and I told them I didn't think it was right what they were doing to that kid. From that moment on, not by my intention I took on all the intended bullying which that kid had coming to him, on to myself, and likely assumed much of what would have been his life. I got beat up, and tossed into dumpsters nearly every single day by that group of kids. Then I started smoking, as an attempt to fit in, but of course that didn't work, and I became extremely addicted. I later ended up getting transferred between schools, even did some homeschooling, until I completed my grade 12. After school I got training in the line of work I was doing when I met you. You, the one person that hurt me the most, that could hurt me the most, regardless of everything else that has been thrown my way in life. If I could return to that first day of grade 8, instead of sticking up for that kid that was being bullied, I would take my basketball and hit that kid in the face with it. I probably would have ended up with a basketball scholarship, and married the prom queen. I probably never would have started smoking, and be much healthier than I am now. Best of all, I likely never would have met you. No good deed goes unpunished by the devil, and that's exactly who you are to me.

I don't mind the fire

It is a natural part of forest rejuvenation, and a different climate of forest will likely take over. It is a beautiful natural cycle.


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