Confessions

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Not really a Confession in the traditional sense

But a bit of commentary. As a cis lesbian I feel drag kings, lesbians, non binary folx 2 spirited people in the indigenous communities & those in the trans community are being thrown under the bus sort sort of speak what with the stuff regarding drag shows with drag queens, why is it always about drag queens? Where are the drag kings? The LGBTQ2s community is not just drag queens...... anyways my little commentary.

Is a small penis a dealbreaker?

I have a small penis. Very small. My girlfriend agrees it is small but says she can get over it. So here is what I want to know: is she lying? Any women who want to comment on this please do - if you met a guy you like and then discovered he was very small down there, would you break up with him? Would you be upset and disappointed?

Less is more

Social media is very hazardous to one's health. Used to be on Reddit, here, WhatsApp group chats... Cut it all out except IM for operational necessities (coordinating activities and like-so). Muuuch better. I'm an introvert, though. Maybe SM is great for extroverts - I'll never understand. But good to know where they all are. Not my tribe. If you're an introvert (outgoing or withdrawn, doesn't matter) and also an Aspie (iykyk), rethink your relationship with this stuff. Before it breaks your mind, and scrambles your emotions like so many eggs. Which will (eventually and inevitably) alter your body in ways you won't like. Walk away. Tend your own neurochemical garden. Stay clear of the afflicted "great unwashed". Delusional hysteria is contagious.

To the men on FetLife

Please for the love of god...please stop having your dick as a profile pic.....no women want to see that.

Weird Brother.

I'm 36, my brother is 29, we share a apartment here in Burnaby....I got home from work was tired decided to turn the tv & watch South Park because I was to lazy to watch anything educational, anyway my brother comes in half a hour from work & see me watching South Park & says in a cranky voice "why are you watching that stupid ass trashy shit" I then said "fine whatever watch whatever you want I need to shower" well after 20 minutes or so I get out of the shower go to my bedroom get clean clothes on & walk into the living room....my brother is watching a Jeffrey Dahmer documentary on Netflix or Tubi....I said myself "seriously? Is this educational?

This is 40

Well, almost. I'm 39, and I'm starting to feel it. I've been slowly losing hair since 25 or so sure... but now it grows in my nose and my ears. My eyebrows are getting longer. I get Botox for forehead wrinkles. My legs hurt often. I think I sat too much during covid and no matter how much I move now I can't seem to reverse the damage. Sex used to take (much) longer...and now I get 24 hours of multidirectional peeing after. Oh yeah, and I became allergic to almost every food I used to enjoy about 5 years ago and it hasn't improved. How the heck do people live into their 70s or 80s? I'm going to be a disaster.

Not a mind reader

If you’re not willing to be open, honest, and vulnerable, don’t expect others to read your mind. It takes guts to show your real intentions and feelings, and the guys who think that acting cool and casual, or that you don’t care if you’re with them or not, makes you manly are mistaken. It makes you seem afraid and it’s a complete turn off. If you genuinely want to be with someone, ffs tell them how you really feel! If you can’t do that then don’t feel sorry for yourself if that person leaves because they don’t think you really care.

Your boo?

Boo is one of the lamest words I’ve ever heard, especially when people use it to refer to their boyfriends and girlfriends. Didn’t know you were dating a ghost. Aren’t ghosts supposed to be dead or something?

Now here’s the big difference…

You would have never been ALONE if we stayed together, I was your biggest cheerleader. We could have found a different way. Now that is over, you knew that was the last chance.

Burnt Out

I am completely burnt out and have this total dissociation from people now cause they hurt me to deal with. Just riding out my life.

I SAW YOU

Riding bikes down Great Northern Way

We were riding down Great Northern Way. At the stops, we commented on each others e-bikes. I...