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I've heard

Many guys love to have their balls tickled and kissed, caressed, licked and held ever so gently during sex. Especially sensitive near their asshole. Is that true?

Only when I'm Gone

I want someone that loves me, and wants to be with me when I'm there, not only when I'm not there.

Slowly learning

It took me a long time to understand why my partner couldn’t articulate his emotions. It took years for us to figure out how to communicate and I could never tell what he was feeling. Somewhere along his life he learned to push sad or mad away until he stopped being aware of when he was feeling a negative emotion, then it came out as anger at others or passive. It came to a breaking point a couple of years ago and our last effort was going to counselling but he almost wouldn’t go because of the fear of sharing his feelings. My confession is that this makes me deeply sad, to know that so many people are taught unconsciously that they aren’t allowed to feel, including myself on certain things. Even though we’re way happier now than we’ve ever been he still does it a lot.

I reserve...

... the right to refuse service. Anyone who is denied the right to refuse service is a serf, being told by a Lord whom he must serve. I am not a serf. I am freeborn, as are all of you. Involuntary servitude has been eliminated for a long time now---but those who want to play Medieval Lords and Ladies, they want to drug us into forgetting our natural right to refuse service.

The problem with being a fixer

A friend called me with a problem he was having. More of a confession call than a call to help me fix it. But being a fixer, I can't help myself. I listened and then all I could do was think of a way I could help him through it. I spouted my advice and he agreed because he's already heard it from counsellors and other professionals. He just asked me to be "there" for him to talk to when he needed to keep the demons in his head in check. Is that enough? I feel like I need to do more. But even he recognizes that no amount of exterior help is going to help him. He knows it's got to come from him or he'll never get better. I just feel like I'm doing nothing.

Beauty runs deep

She just turned 67. I fell into her beautiful eyes. My soul is on fire.

Damn birds

I spent yesterday morning cleaning the bird crap off of the bench we dedicated in memory of my father in law. Those damn birds have no respect.

Weed Smokers (and cigarette) With No Respect For Others

I have no problem with people weed or cigarettes out in open spaces but I live in a condo. What you do in your place affects others. You smoke weed in your place and every adjoining suite next to, above and below you smells like it. I’ve heard people use the excuse that people drink alcohol so they can smoke weed. There is no comparison. Someone can drink a beer without it affecting his neighbours but weed and cigarettes do. It’s especially bad when you spend the money on a nice condo and you’re trying to raise young children with that smell coming in. Have a little respect and take it outside.

I Like Oral Better Than Sex

Is it weird that I’d rather give a woman oral than fuck her? I just love making her cum in my mouth...such a turn on. I even enjoy rimming if she is fresh out of the shower. Don’t get me wrong, I like to fuck but I love to go down. Am I alone on this? Is there something wrong with me?


Suggestive T Shirt

Bus on Granville Street Friday July 19. You were sitting across from me and couldn’t miss your t...

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