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COVID isolation is my life

The mass experience of isolation during COVID lockdown is reassuring for me. Hearing people express the pain of social isolation feels like validation. I’ve been socially isolated by the mental health closet & poverty for so long that I’ve lost all my friends & opportunities for friendships with peers are almost non-existent. Welcome to my life.

Stay out of BC

A friend of a friend is coming out from Quebec for a quick vacation and the selfishness of it makes me so mad. Why would this person think they deserve a non-essential vacation more than anyone else in these times? They aren't staying long enough to self isolate any time. Blows my mind.

Had to do it

I killed a good friendship because it was making me crazy trying to figure out all the lies!

Covid- 19

Equals 19 pounds gained, thanks goodness got some time to bike it off!

Charged at like a rhino

I cannot understand the mentality of someone who would "charge" a disabled person, just like a rhino. Commercial Drive, around 2.30 this afternoon. Three young women totally blocking the sidewalk while walking. I have a huge leg brace and walk with a cane. You looked straight through me and bashed into my left arm. Never mind social distancing, have some common sense. If you had injured me or knocked me down, you better believe I WOULD have called the police and sued you. I wish I could say this has never happened to me or my disabled friends before, but it is distressingly common. If a person is distracted or on their phone, that's bad enough, but to do it deliberately is sociopathic.

Thinking back

6 years ago when life wasn't good I had to sleep at work for about 4 weeks on and off. It wasn't in a cozy office either.

Self Exposure

Funny when people show you who they are. My boyfriend told me during an argument that his boss hates me. The thing is, I’ve met the guy once for less than 5 minutes. So how does he hate me? Guess who’s a two faced shit talker! Someone’s getting dumped. When people show you who they are, believe them.


My cousin is dating the best friend of my shitty ex. She didn’t know they were friends beforehand. The thought of running into him at any family get together makes me stress sweat. Why does the world have to be so small?

Outta Control

My drinking has gotten so bad. I’m hungover to the point I can’t leave my bed most days. The sunny days are the worst because all I want to do is get some sunshine in my life. What am I doing? As soon as the hangover passes I just feel like drinking again. There has got to be more to life than this.

Single Lady

I used to think my chances of meeting a nice man were slim to none. Then Covid hit and my chances went from slim, to none. I was complaining about this to a friend last night and she reminded me that perhaps it’s BECAUSE of Covid that I may meet a nice man when it’s over because everyone has been isolated and would like to meet someone. Times have changed and hopefully this disease has given people some perspective. Always look on the bright side of life!


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