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High School Sweetheart

It was the same story, I went to college in the fall and they had to stay and finish High School. Three weeks later I slept with someone and ended things. Decades later, I have no way of telling the sweetheart that the person I met that first month of college is probably the closest thing I have to a soulmate so it wasn't in vain...

On This Valentines

I'm playing old songs again - reliving old memories. Thank you Toni and Mariah, making me high with these sweet sweet fantasies all over again.


Why is it my Mom only calls when she wants something, I am the one always initiating contact. I've invited her our home and she always has excuses, but will go places with my brother. So, I have stopped asking and the contact has just become an obligation instead of a relationship.

Happy Valentine’s

This is my fifth consecutive year being single on Valentine’s Day, and my annual tradition until this point has been to “check up” on exes and former flames on social media, get drunk and feel sorry for myself, while hoping that someone will “surprise me”. Well, this year I decided to surprise myself by doing something differently, and making a big list of things to be grateful for instead. And it’s truly done wonders today. I have no wish to “check up” on anyone, self-abuse under the guise of self-care, and I don’t feel sad at all. Wishing everyone a great day, whether single or coupled!


I can’t do it anymore I am done between the pandemic and all the craziness in the world I just can’t deal with it anymore. I have officially hit my breaking point. Done

Damn calendars

Apparently the calendar makers devised a little twist of the dagger to the heart of us singletons, that both Valentines and Family Day come so close together, just to remind us that we are unqualified for either.

No Valentime

I really can't handle thinking of all the people having sex. It's been a year for me because of this situation...

Our first Valentines together

I wanted it to be special. I made a reservation at the restaurant where we had our first date. But when I told my gf, she told me that she and her friends had a tradition of a non-romantic get-together on Valentines Day. So I cancelled the reservation and we went to this non-Valentines Valentines - us, her best friend and her bf, and my gf's best guy friend. After we broke up, I found out that my gf was actually in an open marriage with this "best guy friend". I was the only one not let in on the secret. The non-romantic get-together was so that he didn't feel left out on Valentines Day.


I got a call from public health Authority last week and I’ve been told to self isolate. All because of a covid outbreak at work. This whole ordeal has been causing me to feel very depressed. I’m starting to have thoughts of suicide. Yes I do sound crazy but the way I’m feeling, I could care less if I died of Covid.

Who Trains Who?

As soon as I roll a joint, my dog knows they are going outside and gets excited.


Manager (?) at the Yaletown Distillery

You = tall, dark hair and handsome in a blue colored shirt. I think you may have been the manager...


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