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Pixie Cut

Whenever my girlfriends cut their long hair off, i was less attracted to them. This is something I've never said to anyone.

Should I tell her?

I’m truly conflicted about whether or not to let this woman know that the guy she’s been having an on again off again relationship with has been trying to get back with me at the same time as he’s been playing her. She thinks she’s going to be with him forever, but he only started seeing her again because I dumped him. Since then we’ve talked a few times and I know that if I told him that I wanted to get back together he would come, because that’s how it is. We have a connection that defies logic, and have since the day we met. I know he uses her and I feel sorry for her but at the same time I’m not that person who interferes in other people’s relationships, so I’m really unsure about whether or not to tell her what’s been going on.

crazy carbon capture

read an article this morning that says some idiots are considering carbon capture technology under the city of vancouver. first off and i'm no physics major we are living in an active earthquake zone. secondly, you can't inject stuff back into the earth that wasn't there in the first place and expect it to stay put. thirdly, let's just stop creating massive amounts of carbon in the first place!!

Is this deliberate?

I feel like I’m losing my mind. So…at my work there’s a guy who’s supposed to be my assistant. The theory is that he takes instruction from me except when it’s something that’s specifically his responsibility. But lately he’s been doing things without me asking him to, and often without him even saying he’s going to do it. The result has been several times when I’ve either already done the thing and then he does it too, which confuses the client, or he decides to do the thing before I get a chance to do it, without asking me first if I want him to. So then I spend my time doing the thing, only to learn from the supplier or the client that my assistant has already done it. It’s a total waste of efforts and causes confusion for everyone. When I try to talk to him about it he acts like he just thought it was his job, but there’s no reason why he should think that because it’s never been his job before. Wtf. I feel like he’s trying to make me look bad or himself look good, but instead he’s just causing a problem.

Think about it

I want to send out a strong message to some ignoramuses that gossip about my best friend by throwing false accusations at him. All they do is whine about how he messaged them on Facebook messenger and told them what he really thinks of them. I just want to say from the bottom of my heart… You guys are all a bunch of idiots. You gave him valid reasons to lash out. He’s lived a very hard life. You nor anyone else know his situation. He has his own problems. Try putting yourself in his shoes and ask yourselves how you would feel if you were in his place. Then again, your narcissism knows no bounds. Your parents clearly didn’t bring you people up right, which is why you’re all so self entitled. For the record, my friend is doing just fine. He has come so far since then. He’s happy, healthy, safe and comfortable in his own skin. Leave the guy alone.

We need to talk about your lack of self-esteem.

Look, I understand your business is your business. I understand your childhood was seriously messed up and you're struggling with the fallout. But your low opinion of yourself, your lack of self-esteem or self-confidence does NOT give you the right to subtly criticize, nitpick, gaslight and generally make others feel less than.

I don't know if this is crazy or commonplace or what but

In order to cope better with my saddening, dysfunctional family over the holidays, I make a box for myself filled with my favourite foods like almonds, dried fruit, potato chips. It sits on my kitchen counter unopened and it's waiting for me when I return. It makes me feel safe knowing it's there. After the holidays are over, I'm allowed to treat myself to what's inside.

Life is pain.

But pain makes it worth it when you overcome. Been 5 years since I sent I've had a drink. Coincidentally been 5 years since my ex has had to deal with any drunken texts or emails.

Can u stop already

Dating is a human right. And a need. I don't want DDD for 5 minutes, I need an emotional connection as well, Even if it's casual. Could u stop forcing ur views on me and ur life on me and let me go so we can do normal activities on the way we want?

Please don't say I should be happy with what I have....

But I'm a middle age guy getting up there on age, on government disability (mental health shit) & no girlfriend I'm not looking for a "hot yaletown party girl) just a normal girl...but being on government disability is the kids of death if you're a guy looking for a girlfriend.....yes I was married but she was bi polar, had eating disorder, was possessive, I never saw my family never saw my niece's & nephews grow up, thank god I see my family...but shit, the affection & intimacy for a woman to give & recieve is what I desire, with someone normal....I'm a nice, courteous guy, believe in respect & consent & boundaries I don't stare & leer at young 22 year old women, I'm not religious I believe I'm equal rights for LGBTQ2s people & justice for Indigenous people, I'm not a conspiracy theorist who thinks COVID shots cause leprosy & turns children into French speaking gay I am a clear thinker not a university educated person, but I am aware of things...anyway...thank you


Guy who participated in Chinatown parade ...

I work nearby Chinatown and where I work was crazy busy after Chinatown parade on Sunday. ...

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