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Exhausted from trying

Almost falling asleep tired all day, wide awake all night. Major Depressive Disorder is such fun.

Solved that problem

No more phone service lol One cellular provider, won't mention their name Doodo are a bunch of Liers with a substandard service. Using untrue marketing promotions that are basically bullshit to get you to sign with them. By the way I did not refer two friends as your ridiculous bill implied. Chow Dodoo Shifty Practices I say and Cancelled :)

Dont work for family run businesses EVER!!!

Family businesses are toxic AF. All of the baggage and drama and BS gets aired out constantly. Dumb family dynamics are pushed on to non family employees and bad patterns of behaviour get hopelessly entrenched. I used to like my job, but these dumb people and their bullshit are doing my head in. Im gonna wait till it gets SUPER busy then quit. The family members are now on their 3rd vacation of the year while we are swamped with absurd work orders that are nowhere near realistic. Fuck this place. Im so happy im leaving. Just a couple more weeks.

Picked a place to live

Beautiful spot just past the Crocker Land Mountains where the weather is always a balmy 74 degrees. Now how to get there is the next question ? Anyone going my way :)

Walk don’t run

No car maintenance class? Oh that’s right. We can’t afford vehicles here. Unless you’re a Tesla toting smug out of touch halfhearted environmentalist And renew your lease every few years with a brand new vehicle. All to appear as someone with a Jones family name. Where does all that energy come from? News flash there isn’t enough resources. Even if you win this rat race. You’re still a rat.

Separate isn’t always better

I acknowledge that I’m from an older generation, but being so gives me the benefit of experience. So I’ve witnessed the full gamut of relationship styles and standards. One thing that really strikes me as being relevant to how successful a relationship is, is how the couple treats their finances. The people who don’t mix their finances into joint accounts and insist that everything is split down the middle, seem to lack the cohesiveness that’s fundamentally necessary for a true partnership. When I was young, even couples who lived together without being married usually fully combined their finances. In my case we had both a joint account and individual accounts of our own into which we both deposited equal amounts of money once we’d made sure that our necessary expenses were covered, but the joint account was for both of us and it wasn’t viewed as theirs or mine, but ours. So we decided together how we would spend our money, and that was typical of the other couples we knew. I think if you’re not willing to fully commit to that type of partnership, then you’re not ready for the long haul with that person. Obviously it requires that each person has an equal say, but that applies to every other aspect of the relationship too, so I still think it’s relevant to the ultimate success of the relationship.

I didn’t ask

Most of the time when someone is sharing their experience and feelings about something, they’re just expressing themselves. It doesn’t mean they want or need you to tell them what to do. That habit is a bad one that far too many people seem to have. If I’m frustrated maybe I just want to talk about it. I’m not asking for your advice, I just want an ear sometimes. I do it for people all the time, but for some reason if I try to share my own feelings or situations with others, 9 times out of ten they immediately jump to telling me what to do. It drives me nuts and it makes me feel completely unheard. I think it’s a patronizing way to treat others because you’re basically telling them that you know better than they do. Just stop please. If I want your advice I’ll let you know.

Unaware friend annoys

My friend has been living here for years since they moved here from overseas and I hate walking with her. She constantly walks into people then complains about how stupid they are. The thing is, she's walking on the left side of the sidewalk and we don't do that here. In Canada, we drive on the right, we ride on the right and we walk on the right and it's HER who is the one in the wrong, pissing off people every time we're out. It's disrespectful! I'd never do that if I were, say, in the UK. You look at the car traffic and that tells you everything you need to know about where people defer to. It's common sense and culturally respectful, and she should have gotten a clue after living here the first few years I want to tell her that she's not overseas, she's here now. She needs to accept that reality before she starts a fight, especially with people being volatile these days.


I’ve never voted conservative in my life. But I wouldn’t mind sleeping with Alberta Premier Danielle Smith. Damn she’s smokin’ hot! Hubba hubba!

Hamburger Helper

My white trash 90s childhood was all Kool-Aid, Tang, Little Debbie and Hamburger Helper. Don't miss it (much), but whatever happened to common middle America meal of Sloppy Joes?


JJ Bean Babe

I come in for my morning London Fog and Umami Wrap. You’re usually working and even if you don’t...

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