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A pattern

Every time my boyfriend spends time with his "friend" (actually his ex, who refuses to meet me, 6 months into our relationship, despite the fact that she dumped him), I pick a fight with him about their "friendship". I don't do it on purpose, but it's definitely a pattern. I'm trying really hard not to start an argument this time, but I really just want to tell him off.


Finally got out over the weekend, met with some friends at a place in burnaby, just for some drinks and appy's, chatt/catch up. bill comes due, didnt tip, why should i? service was crap, place wasnt busy, and it took the server about 20 to come see us take our drink order, another 20 or so before she came back with drinks, ordered food at teh same time, she brought it to us and it was only just above warm, and wrong as well, so sent back. we all had our own bills, in about two hours i only had three drinks {as the server hardly came to our table} food order was basically cold and wrong and had to send back. didnt even get any water, and we did ask, None of us where asked how everything was, just a attitude of, hurry up and order , and when stuff was served, here you go and puff vanishing act. even had to flag down a diff server to get our bills, who i guess, told the one who was serving us that we wanted the bill. why should you get a tip for just showing up and doing a crappy job? attitude, service sucked, you want a tip, do your job, dont just show up for a pay check, and expect that you'll be tipped no matter what. FYI i've done you'r job, two plus years, you want tips, then do your job with out the "piss on you for showing up and making me work" attitude.

Rich people have it easy

For the first time in my life I don't have to work. My wife accepted a high paying position in a beautiful tropical country and I spend my days lounging in the pools, swimming or working out. I eat fresh foods and smoothies because the weather encourages it. I'm now the fittest I've ever been and it came so quickly, so naturally. How are the poor living in wet grey squalor supposed to do it? I worked so hard in Vancouver on my health and my body never changed. Here, it's like magic.

Not liking the motivation so much

But I am liking the direction. Don't quit. Just ease up on pressuring yourself. You won my heart. Just get here. We can put the rest on pause to catch our breath as we recap.


I should hate you for trying to destroy my life and you did a lot of damage so far but you also deserve a thanks. So thanks. Because in your efforts to cause me harm, someone supportive who I've been secretly crushing on made it known how much he cares about me. Not only are you a failure at being a good person, youve also failed at being a bad one!

I propose a statute of limitations on idiocy

I propose a statute of limitations on idiocy. I never wore black-face, or donned a white sheet and hood, even for a yearbook photo. But god knows I did some incredibly stupid things when I was young, and just about everyone else probably did, too. I'm not talking about redemption here, just a little reasonable slack-cutting for our past indiscretions.

Kindness is sometimes overrated

Not sure how many people would do this but I lent someone almost $1000 because she was a friend and she was supposed to help me by doing chores around my home but she pretended she did not know how to do the work or even learn how to do it as though she had psychological problems doing the work. I had to pay someone else to do the work finally but meanwhile she was coming by visiting as if she was doing me a favor with her company. She prides herself on being a self taught expert in various topics but she fails miserably to convince anyone but her most loyal buddies that she has anything interesting to say either in print or in person. Not much talent and as it turns out not much aptitude for anything but taking money from others. I really know how to pick 'em ...

The Single life

I’ll always have time for you on moving day, house sitting and looking after your pets. And any other chores you may need me for.


I've been thinking, Not to be rude or uncaring.. Cause I care but do you think homeless people are left in the streets uncared about as a tatic to keep the population in line. Keep you working hard striving for something you may not even care about. This could happen to you sorta thing... A Harsh Reminder Scare Tatic. Keep you in the working cog .. I know and have seen good food, drinks everything you can imagine just thrown away.. And I mean on a large scale..Not giving to those that really need it.. There is truly enough to go around health care ,food, things.. Why are they being with held. Destroyed Even.. A better sytem should be in place. There is a better life we could all be leading.. Why are the heads in charge not even caring about us the people.. We all know it .. A better system that makes everyone Happy.. Healthy Is it really just all about money and power?


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