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working the mask

No one really knows it but there's a set of facial exercises I do for toning. It's for tension release too but let's face it (pun) it's mostly an attempt to defy gravity. You can imagine that because they involve your face, when doing them you can look pretty ridiculous. What I've realized is that there's an unintended benefit to having to wear a mask. Over these past 18 months I've gotten waaaay more reps in every day than I used to! Walking, in the elevator, shopping, on transit...I've been doing my exercises and no one's the wiser. I do leave out the eye roll ones though, nobody needs that : D (exercised smiley face there)

Done

I am done with Craigslist every ad I respond to is a scam. Apartments and jobs (anything on that site really) as a matter in fact I don't even need my phone anymore. If something is not useful why bother using it, I say. So done with Craigslist !

Fear of love

I lived alone since I’m 16 and in all those years I could not love anybody or anything ! Now I’m 32 and scared that I am not equipped with a love system in me ! Ha ha I guess I always liked freedom of not attaching myself to one place , person or a thing !

Controlling relationship

I’m trapped in a relationship with my wife, I feel like I am wasting the last few good years of my life. She controls every aspect of our lives, finances, friends, Sex life and children. She only seems attracted to me if she’s been drinking and makes me feel like garbage when she’s sober. I can’t get out, yet I can’t go on….

oops there it is

On my way to work this morning, I tripped a bit on an uneven piece of sidewalk. I caught myself and immediately laughed out loud which was super weird b/c normally I'd cringe with embarrassment. I registered how different that was for me. A man standing just ahead of me to my right, had noticed me stumble and laugh and as I past him, he too had a big smile on his face "I've done that too" he said. "Those things just come outta no where eh?" I said back, smiling. I kept walking and a security guard about 20 feet along had seen it as well as my interaction with the first guy. "Have a good day!" he said with a big smile. "You too!" as I kept walking. I gotta stumble more often. And loosen up. And not take life so seriously. It was so spontaneous and fun how 3 strangers in our own orbit shared a lighthearted connection for a moment.

I confess

26 years ago we were married because we had a 1 year old child together and we wanted to do the right thing. There is nothing like regret to remind you that you are alive.

Stag

I'm a stag and want my girl to sleep with other men. She is not interested so I have made myself a stag. I am wearing her threesome anklet and love going out so other people can see I'm a stag

Anxiety

I live with anxiety that is due to childhood emotional abuse. Have suffered this since I was a child, and it has limited my ability to experience a full life. I feel trapped in a mental prison that is anxiety.

Coool Feeling

I felt food going through my intestines while I was in bed last night. Feeling it move around like a roller coaster.

What's wrong with me?

Everywhere I look I see ugliness, including myself. Not in nature or animals, just people. How they look, how they act etc. The human race seems pretty unhealthy and messed up. I'm trying to see the positives and not be this way, but I still am. I judge others constantly and am mostly stressed and unhappy. Sometimes I give people a mean look for no reason and then I get home and regret it and feel awful about it.

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