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I’m sorry I barked at you

But just because I’m in a wheelchair doesn’t mean I’m totally useless. I know you’re heart is in the right place and I appreciate you wanting to help but when I drop something and repeatedly say to please leave it, PLEASE leave it, PLEASE LEAVE IT, then please leave it for me to pick up myself. I know I’m going to hear from a lot of you thinking I’m ungrateful but I’m not. It’s just that there is something infuriating about someone diving into my space trying to help. It would make a person feel less pathetic if you were to first offer help or wait to be asked. Once again, I apologize for snapping at you.

Most annoying people in the world are

The ones who are not living in Vancouver but post mean stuff about Vancouver on the confessions. No, you're not allowed to hate anymore.

Cold War

Now that I don't live in Vancouver, my parents can't guilt me about how cold the temperature is at home.

Deliciously distracted

I had the pleasure of sitting next to a very sexy stranger for three hours. It made it hard to focus on my reading. Definitely not complaining. If only every outing to the tea shop could have such company. I'm already addicted to the tea. Add a sexy woman and, well… If she is there next week then I will definitely strike up a conversation.


I started watching a show that’s 55 minutes long....2.5hrs ago. There’s 9 minutes left.

I don't wanna see you

It's hard to have the energy to be around a friend whose problems are of their own making who puts minimal effort into trying to improve their situation when you're fighting hard in your own life only to be held back time and time again by things over which you have no control.

That Boy

I shouldn’t like him as much as I do but I can’t help it. He’s beautiful. He’s wonderful. He caresses me. He is so fucking nice to me. I’m so grateful. Spending time with him is like the perfect cup of tea. I’m so lucky but when he’s away and needs space I feel so lonely. I need to work on that.

Pandemic time kindness at Surrey has station

Today after work, I went to get gas. I first walked into the store to pay and since there was a customer in front of me trying to count his change, I had to wait a few minutes. Once he had paid for his things, he turned around, and asked me if I was getting gas. I said yes, and he told the attendant to add $5 to my gas, as he said he had made me wait and he felt bad. I reassured him that I wasn't in a hurry and that I didn't want to take his $5, as he looked like he didn't have a lot himself. He insisted and walked out of the store. It was a very, very sweet gesture and whoever you are, thank you so much!! It was completely unnecessary but I truly appreciate it. I hope someone does something really nice for you soon. I will pay it forward and thank you again.


I tried cocaine and then ate a cookie that had 100 mg of THC. Big mistake. My body went into convulsions and I couldn’t stop shaking. My vision went blurry. All I could do was breathe through my mouth and my heart raced so fast it felt like my blood vessels were about to explode. I drifted in and out of consciousness thinking this was the end. I honestly thought I was going to die. So I lay down in my bed, thinking that I would probably pass away in my sleep. Thankfully, I just woke up hours later in my bed. I’m still alive and breathing oxygen. I may not be the most religious person in the world, but somehow I feel that God has given me a second chance. Time to clean up my act and get my head straight. No more blow or fancy cookies for me.


Wanna race?

I was biking south bound down arbutus and you were tailing me. Was happy to chat for the brief...


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