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A woman once told me I scared her and not to speak to her again. It was said in a moment of anger, but it CRUSHED me. I'd never been told that from a woman before (and luckily not since!) It was so shocking and jarring. I felt like Quasimodo or Frankenstein. Some kind of unlovable beast! I fled into the night, and even though I cared for her I respected those words and never did approach her again. She ended up coming up to me a few months later and asked if we are okay. Okay? No, we'll never be okay.

I've been thinking

I think we are alone in this universe. Now hear me out . But I do think however that there are multiple universes but each in their own dimensions. One dimension with one planet with life on it in each. So multiple dimensions each with only one planet with life on it. Why you ask do I think that ? Because look at the fact on this planet how different countries are always fighting about shit constantly. Can't seem to get along and always trying to take over each other countries. Can you imagine two planets in the same universe shit they would be battling it out who's got the better planet or trying to take over the other person's planet. So that's why I think one planet in each dimension. Now that not to say that a higher evolved planet could not figure out how to transport to other dimensions, cause that is a possiblity but remember they are higher evolved so maybe they are past the killing and taking over garbage. Smarter is what I'm basically trying to say. Like we should be on this planet but we're not yet ! But I do have hope :)

I kind of wish Confessions had died

With the sale of the GS. While it’s good to have a space for the genuine folks in the area to share thoughts and feelings, there’s also a lot of under-the-radar cyberbullying that goes on here. Tip for the new mods: please keep an eye out for similar language and writerly voice used on posts and replies about disparate topics. Many of these are disingenuous in their content and intended to harass and sometimes threaten vulnerable people who can recognize the code being used. Please ensure this is a safe space and not a playground for covert abuse and coercive control.


This weekend I spent at a nice hotel to relax and enjoy a little away time but to my dismay people were on their phones in the hot tub! I really don’t understand this new society we are living in. I don’t find it relaxing the with the cameras pointed in my direction and when I asked the person to please be mindful of the surrounding he just flipped on me saying it’s a public space! It’s not a public space if I have to pay a few hundred dollars to be there asshole.

Ruff times

Leave my friend alone she has been through enough and doesn't deserve anymore heartache. She has had way more than her share of lies and deception, manipulation and abuse. More then any one person should have to bare. Move on. Why can anyone ever do the right thing ?

How come

The first modern toothbrush was invented in 1938 and pretty much has not improved really nor does it clean your teeth properly in all this time of great advancement and super technology ? Cause you know if there did exist a toothbrush that actually cleaned your teeth properly we would have no need of the dental profession what so ever ! Chew on that awhile. Like they did in 3000 BC. Maybe humans are not as smart as they think they are !

Spare (not the Prince Harry book)

I was driving on the highway on a spare tire, which I’m not supposed to do. It was like the movie Speed, with Keanu Reeves. (Never actually seen it.) Note the capital S, as I wasn’t driving all that fast. Then it began to rain, thereby making my slowness more palatable to other drivers I’m sure. That was more like Little Buddha, also with Keanu strangely enough. Never seen that one either and with that one my motivation is stronger. It is what it is. Words to live (and drive) by!!!


Life is all about perspective. One persons poor, is another persons freedom. Coming out of the pandemic I am hearing more and more from people who's lives superseded the strain of the last few years. Oddly, the one degree of separation to reality is that the divorces they are staving off, their parenting decisions etc, are simply coincidental to many peoples struggles of the last few years. I try to check my own humility rather than judge others, but as I re socialize around many people, the lack of humility and the personal downfall of the previously successful seems to be all around me.


I am allergic to Christmas before December. It gives me an emotional rash. Rubs me the wrong way. It also seems incredibly disrespectful to not allow Remembrance day the space and consideration it deserves for people who sacrificed their lives within our lifetime in favour of someone who died over 2000 years ago (and wasn’t even born in December). Hell, for all the obsession and piousness, no one actually knows when that guy was born. And can we give his white washed image a rest? That person was not white. I’m sure if we found a way to commercialize Remembrance day, sell occasion specific food and wares, make it fun and sexy then it would be more celebrated. Did the people of the past die so that we could celebrate Commercialism?


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