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A good day!

Well I think it’s about time that I post something positive. Today was a very good day and I feel genuinely happy for the first time is a while. Two of my (grown) children are happy and not in need of my help for a change. Huge sigh of relief! I finally got a great haircut and I was told by a total stranger that they couldn’t believe my age (I’m a senior) when they found out, because they genuinely thought I was in my 40’s. All in all, in spite of the regular shite that is my life recently, it’s a very good day!

Not exactly sure when pedestrians lost the right-of-way.

Sign turns to WALK, you step down, turning car BOLTS by your face, you step back or die. Gotcha! New popular BC sport for losers. And once you're in the crosswalk, cars are literally nipping at your heals and cutting between pedestrians. To go where? In Ontario, we used to laugh about speeders with: they're going 150 KPH to Barrie! But this pedestrian bullying is new to here. Why are there no cops ticketing this stuff? or any of our horribly dangerous driver scenarios? Seems Vancouver area police resources are focused on DANGEROUS transit fare evasion.

It feels so unfair in every way.

Around 2 yrs ago I met a woman that I've come to understand is all I've ever wanted, not only that but she is all I'll ever need. It was not a right away realization but started to become more and more clear as we got on. I know now why it was the first time I saw her again we were locked in a strange stare and I never really paid it too much attention until recently. It has been a very difficult ride to say the least. Not long ago I reached out to my ex who was now in a "committed" relationship I needed advice on maybe what to do about this current situation. I had no one else, I'm mostly a keep to myself type, I don't trust too many people. She was not very receptive to helping me at all and was angry that I even asked. This was very unfair I felt seeing that on more than one occasion she had asked me for my advice about her new boyfriend a bit of a controlling asshole I think, but who am I to say. I think now it was a huge mistake,I believe not totally certain but it feels like her in every way. She is doing as much as she can to make sure I never get ahead in this love I found. Too much really relevant information that no one else could know. So now I find myself in love with the one person I feel so empty without and there will be no other her. By this I mean that any other relationship I were to find I would always be missing her, thinking of her and possibly comparing it to her. So I know I can not stop loving her I've tried it doesn't work like that, I feel like now I'm destine to be alone. It's ok though I'd rather have it that way than bring someone on as a bandaid and pretend that they are my everything. That would be unfair considering it's her I feel for me for ever, not them. I just feel so empty and wondering how long this will persist, I think it's coming up 3 months and no where near getting any better. Is there an end insight, I think I know this answer already and it goes a little something like no!


Why does it feel like every confession here is being written by the same person?

Attracted but not interested

I think my hot married coworker has a crush on me. Weird way to put it, but she is super flirty and I’ve now been trying to make minimal contact. I would never act on it and I try not to flirt with her to begin with.. but hey, that’s my confession. I try to hide from her even though I enjoy seeing her around.

too old? too anal?

I live in the Westend near a daycare center. I constantly hear a car doors honk to signal to the owner to absolutely ensure that his/her doors are indeed locked..twice a day, each day M-F. Where do these people live? that they just believe that their horns are music to other peoples ears? 7am-5pm. Do they not have other options such as a click or the ability to visually check to ensure their doors are indeed locked. I guess that these new fangled machines only have a haaawnk sound for those from outta town.

Poor little girl

I read that a 9 year old girl killed herself because she was being so badly bullied at school.. Her family had religious believes on suicide.. So for her to do that ,she must have been going thru hell.. With no way out in her poor little mind.. What the hell What kind of world do we live in? Think about your own child in these horrible government run daycares ( schools) you are sending them to everyday. Hope it never happens to your sweet child.. Hope What is wrong with people, So mean horrible ,nasty, money grubbing ,fake world we live in.. Its Sad Bloody Sad Does no body care anymore..

Stigma remains

I tend to agree with stopping the 420 event as its now to big, but every time I read the people truly pushing to end it, it's people who still want to roll back the stigma around it. My mom was like that for years. But she changed and realized at worst her child gets baked and watches cartoons before going to sleep and getting back up to go to work. But there are still so many of the mind frame wanting to remain steadfast that smoking pot is a horrible thing, a gate way drug, a vile evil thing that corrupts people. I'm glad the 420 event will continue if only for that reason. Every down vote is every reason I'm glad it continues this year.

So Tired Of Being Tired...

I confess that I have been living in the same complex for 6 years because nobody will rent to me because I have a 128lb bullmastiff. Since my good neighbor above me moved away we have had to endure some seriously bad behavior such as stumbling and stomping throughout the night keeping us up and messing up our work days. The last tenants which were a group of party girls were evicted from upstairs finally after a year or so but now there are a group of guys that are basically doing the same thing but worse. We were reassured by the management that they would find calm tenants. Feels like we're back to square one! Now I have to complain about this obvious horrible behavior without sounding like it's us, which it so isn't! Any advice clever posters???

Dirty clothing

This is embarrassing: I can't remember the last time I did laundry ,and had clean clothes. What happened,? Am I getting that old that I dont care, or is it something else? How do I get back on track. Im a decent guy...


Server at Gerard Lounge

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