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How to be a friend

I must confess that had it not been for my best friend at work I do not know where I would be today. When I first started working there my position was a new one requiring a level of education never previously required. My new friend was so supportive of me that she encouraged me into leaving the department for another position that paid better, aw what a pal. A little bit later I realized that I was not going to be able to rely on any references from that department and realized that what had been happening was real in terms of workplace bullying but still trusted my friend. Then a few years later when I was afflicted with some chronic pain she was selling marijuana at work so she sold me some and encouraged me to do more, even asking me to smoke with her regularly and then inviting people who were senior to me to join us. I had to stop her from that nonsense, silly friend. They did not smoke anyway. As time went by my credibility at work slipped but my friend said she was not involved in office politics any more. I had to fight for my rights a few times and she made sure to be absent and excused herself based on her health. Of course friend. Now a couple of years have gone by and although I am still employed it is like no one has ever heard of me but they are sure hearing about my friend. Wow, she has the same job as I do and she has not even tried... all she had to do was show up for her job and she became as qualified as I am and more. She now has plans to get back into the swing of things and is reconnecting at work, now that I may have to leave. She doesn't ask me to go out any more, does not talk about work with me and hardly seems interested in our friendship any more. She only comes over if I offer her something special like dinner out or free marijuana. She is doing so much better at work than I am. How that happened must be an accident. She would never deliberately sabotage me. Right friend?

I use marijuana to treat my mental health

I used to be depressed, an emotional eater, and an alcoholic. After having enough of useless pharmaceutical drugs and diets to treat my mental health and weight loss, I decided to seek help from a natural healer. He guide me to marijuana and which strains I need and dosage. When I am not working, I take CBD oil and THC oil (indica and sativa). It is almost 2 months now and I am now seeing the positive effects on my health and the decrease of eating. Marijuana save my life.

Rich kid adults with time

They do not have to work, invest in their future, and just go to burner festivals and pretend to be a working class hero.

A wandering eye.....

What does a girl do about a wandering eye, her boyfriend's in particular? Should she turn a blind eye, is it serious, what if it extends to looking at others' profiles online, does it lead to other things.....? Asking for a friend.


If there's a word stronger than 'hate' then that's how I feel about rap and hip hop. I hear Eminem put out a new album that talks shit about other rappers. On one hand..great :) On the other hand...that's very lame. You're not suppose to make albums about your personal bullshit with other rappers. Do that on your own time. The music is for the people..the people who give you money. New low for the music industry that allowed the album to pass. If this isn't rock bottom for rap music then I don't know what is. Long live rock and roll


It costs as much to insure my car annually as I paid for it.

Pizza in Van

As far as I'm concerned, Vancouver has by far the best pizzerias I've ever been to. More so than I can say about Surrey.

cool lic. plate

It said UP TO YOU YES I like that UP TO YOU. We all know this but its so simply stated.. just wanted to share.. Cheers

Seeing is Believing

So, this new guy at work. Moved here a few months ago from the mainland and, because it’s a tight knit industry, a lot of rumours followed him here. I thought I would give him the benefit of the doubt. But, by the way he flirts with the mousey single mom in the office, I get the sense that his wife might want to start paying a little closer attention to who he’s meeting with from work after hours.


Bashes my inexpensive and very reliable Taiwanese runabout but spends $18.000 on a Hardly Ferguson. What a cliché. Good riddance.

Interiority Studies

I have to admit her exterior isn't looking so hot any more, but it's what's inside that counts, right?


im a guy whos been so uninterested in sex the last year, everyone just wants to rush into it and not take the time, hell no one even wants to take he time to know the minimum of what their partner likes/doesn't like and just do it, whats the point then, man or woman if thats all you want to get off, just stay in and take matters into your own hands, cause you'll never know how much better it is when you've taken the time to find out/learn what your partner likes/enjoys/gets them going and off and to start up round two or three.

my fault

my fault no one else's that i screw what could have been an amazing relationship up, never been in the situation before, was to worried about how someone else would feel and put how they might feel/them, first before the person that i wanted to be with, that i fell in love with, when i should put that person first and told the other to suck it up and deal. been about a month now, cant stop thinkin about her and what we had an dwhat we could have had, like i said, my fault, no one else's , maybe in some other dimension she'll given me a second chance, but im pretty sure it wont be in this one.


Lufthansa MUC-YVR on Sept 16, 2018:...

You, Asian perhaps late 30s and dark half-length hair, offered to switch seats with me on the...