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Life Hack Or Adaptation?

I've learned to turn the ringer on my phone off during the weekends, lest I get woken by a stupid robocall.

I made a horrible joke

and she decided that was the tipping point for her. She didn't want to see me anymore. I felt like shit for making her feel so bad. I made myself feel like shit too because I realized that "joke" was against my values as well. Our connection was so special and I just can not stop thinking about her. I know I should move on with life, but the reality is that I rather live with this pain because it reminds me of her.

Let me ask u

Is it mean to have a garage sale and sell every bit of junk a mean, horrible person collected? Then use that money to vanish in to the abyss. When this person took everything you ever had. And never even cared about you, other than a means to an end. Eye for an Eye? Im tired of playing nice! Is that wrong?

Thoughts over a cuppa joe...

I am a magnet for master manipulators. I push back, nothing changes. Ignore, nothing changes. FML. What woodwork are they crawling out of?

Lame ducks

I'm not voting for any of these candidates that are running for Prime Minister. Hell no! They're all the same song and dance all talk no action easier said than done bullshit. Cats and dogs would do a waybetter job than any of these people. Hell, I'll even vote for Garfield and Snoopy. Even Kermit and Cookie Monster would be better choices.

Owning a dog + vehicle = relationship value?

I live in Downtown Vancouver, close to work and I've been cycling to work this year. It makes no sense financially or environmentally for me to own a vehicle. In fact I think it would be a bit selfish of me to own a vehicle simply to "get out of the city" on weekends. I see a lot of dating profiles where people want to "go on adventures", "go hiking", "get out of the city" etc., for the most part this requires a vehicle, and therefore insurance, paying for gas, paying for parking, dealing with road rage and so on. If someone owning a vehicle and a dog qualifies them to be more valuable for a relationship that is ridiculous to me. Character, intelligence, soul, charm, compassion... these are so much more valuable traits to me than owning things. I see a lot of douchey looking guys with trendy dog breeds that live in Yaletown/Downtown and it seems obvious they're doing it to appeal to women. I love nature and dogs, I go on hikes when I'm travelling or happen to be near the wilderness, but I live in downtown Vancouver, and that's just not realistic to me right now. If I can take a bus to a hiking spot, I'll do it, but if anyone out there requires me to own a vehicle to be relationship material, sorry, that's just not happening.


I am too sensitive for this world... it used to be okay when i was younger. appreciation for all things.. bleeding for nothing.. but now it's just unbecoming.

Yes I did

I actually sold some drugs and never got caught. I needed the money and it was of a one off.

Free beer

One of my customers is a brewery and every now and then we get free beer from them. We each got 8 beers of different flavors today. Right in time for the long weekend. Yahooo!

what was I thinking

been married to the same women for 25 years. I ain't never doing that again and no one can make me.


Cutie at The Interrupters

We were up the front, you had your black hat on backwards. I had a short black dress with stripes...

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