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Outgrowing and growing up

I work two jobs, have a dog, and also have a great group of friends and family that I thought "kept me busy." I recently ended a significant friendship in my life because I realized this person crossed so many boundaries . So I decided it's best for me to focus on myself and my life without being shamed for it. Now that I have done this, I feel like I have a lot more time on my hands. I want to meet someone I can date and focus on my interests. It's time for me to focus on my growth and the healthy relationships I have. This isn't entirely easy, because I grew up around drama and negativity, but I know I can do it.

My fwb

He texted this morning and I’m sick so couldn’t come out to play,now I can’t help but think he moved on to number 2.

a little white lie (but not really little or white)

I'm part of this family (everyone is in a relationship or married) and there is a rumor going around that one of the siblings has an incurable unpleasant disease. Now I have no idea where or how this rumor started, she doesn't even know that the family is talking about this behind her back. I truly think it has something to do with her doing well in every aspect of life. I am just a recent addition to this family (through marriage) and I have no idea how to bring it up to her or make this all stop.

love songs to myself

Whitney Houston was right...the greatest love of all IS inside of me.

Ending a Relationship

I've never had a breakup end this way before. He's moving away for work and we're ending things with nothing but love and respect. All of my other breakups had something to be mad at (even if it was something small to hate on) which makes moving on a bit easier. This time I'm just so incredible sad because it's no one's fault and we have nothing but love between us. Our relationship was the first unselfish love I've ever felt, because I know this move is the best thing for him and can't wait to see where this takes him in life. All of my sadness stems from me being selfish and in the end I know I'll be okay.


My siblings treat my parents horribly. I wish there was some sort of button I could push to make them see it for what it is. I must confess, I want to bonk their heads together. It would feel great for a second.

Trade shoes

Gonna try this one more time, I have never ever ever desired to be alone, like completely non interactive anyone, as mush as I desire the quietness as I do now. I don't think it's ever going to happen and I don't know how to make it go away

Raise property taxes

I'm a homeowner and I pay property taxes. I'd be more than happy if property taxes went up to make Vancouver a better place. In fact, double 'em. I'd be totally cool with that. I am serious.

Dear brother

You've told me so many times that you hate me.. you throw that phrase around like it means nothing. It hurts so much but I'm starting to realize sometimes you have to part ways even when someone means the world to you. A wise old woman predicted when we grew up this would happen. I don't want to, but I think I have to let you go now.. maybe some day things will be like they used to be.. We can laugh like we did when we were little kids and enjoy eachother's company. I hope you find peace.

Opposites Attract?

I'm an introvert and have classically been with extroverts who took a shine to me. It led to a lot of awkward situations for me when really I just needed to be with another introvert.


Pink Hair on the 14

I boarded the 14 Hastings eastbound at Kaslo and Hastings. You complimented me on my hair, to...

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